I highly suggest, in the future, instead of the JAQ style of post, if you want to have a discussion on the topic, you lead with something like this instead.
One where feminists are hypocrites and have moved on to female superiority.
There are a dozen other reasons why it could be happening but you haven't actually demonstrated that it does beyond anecdote. The individuals you may have met who do this, you'd have to ask them. On a societal level...
Those aren't thoughtful questions. They're assumptions. If you wish to write a hypothetical, do so.
I'm tired of "Just Asking Questions" as a method of propogating a world view.
It's entirely possible to understand the "other's" sex or sexuality, but it requires empathy. And we're not so good at empathy for people not in our "group."