Right, it's up to the individual as to how much they are suffering in that it's a part of the person that is determing the suffering.
How is that to be fixed by God? Should the part of us that interprets things as suffering never have been given us?
I'll attempt to elucidate. Bob and Frank are window washers. The both fall off the scaffold and break their legs the same way in the same place. Bob, being the pansy *ss that he is, is screaming bloody murder and suffering like never before. Frank being the man that he is, feeling the same pain...
Cleaning mess off my shoes takes time. Interruptions to my schedule are unproductive. Suffering can ruin a whole week. Yet *hit happens. I don't schedule it. When it happens I deal with it. I find judge it as good or bad.
Instead of quibbling over the quality consider this then. One event happens to two people. One suffers and one doesn't. Clearly it's not the event bit the expression of the individual. This means all God has to do is change people so they have no capacity to suffer. Life would be good then.
I try and use the correct meaning of words and use them for structured coherent thoughts. That's usually why my answers are short. I'm only just so coherent.