A good atheist goes to hell but a really bad christian who says he has repented his sins goes to heaven. Does this seem right to you?
No.
I'm not exactly atheist, but i believe that until god sends me some sort of telepathic message or revelation and tells me that I MUST believe in Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism, Islam, or some other religion.. I will never really know. I don't believe in blind faith. I need proof, and by that I mean a personal experience.
This is precisely what those of my faith incourage others to look for. A personal experience, a revelation from God that's personal, yours. It is possible to have this experience.
I was having this conversation with a Christian friend of mine because there was an article on the internet about the pope forgiving CHILDREN who were molested by priests! As if it was their fault! He said they "tempted so many of the church's servants into lustful violation of their holy vows of celibacy." W. T. F. He's blaming the kids, because of course the church's servants are innocent. (sarcasm). Some of these kids were 5, and they probably didn't even know what sex is. That's innocence.
I want the link to this. Not because I disbelieve it, but it's just so absolutely amazingly unbelievable.
So I asked my friend her opinion. Lets just say... I am an atheist. I'm not exactly, but lets assume I am. And assume I am a good person (you don't know me, so thats why I say assume. Good is an opinion, but I really do believe I am good). I help out in my community, I do my job, I love my family, I get great grades in school, and I care about the world and people. I do my best to be good every day and set appropriate goals for myself.
Way to be. Many Christian folks will also tell you that none of this is necessary, or beneficial to you. Also bunk.
I said to my friend.. "Who goes to heaven and who goes to hell according to your religion?" And she told me that, since I wouldn't have faith, I would go to hell and the people who committed crimes would go to heaven because they believed in Christianity and God. And then she said I should convert as soon as possible so I don't go to hell, and I rolled my eyes at her -_-.
This is dumb. I roll my eyes at that, too. As if accepting Jesus had nothing to do with improving your life and behavior. As if she could judge who was going to heaven or hell.
Does faith really make someone a better person? Because to me, If heaven exists, going to heaven should be for people that are good, not just for people who have faith.
To me, saying you believe is not faith. Faith is the result of acting on belief. If someone professes to have faith, but makes a habit of molesting children, I would not be convinced that their faith is faith at all. Your faith grows when you experiment on a belief and see the positive results. Faith is crippled when you act contrary to your beliefs.
They should be forgiven for being rational skeptics, If that is such a horrible crime. If not, then you'll get people that have faith but aren't necessarily good people in heaven! How fair is that?
It's not. People won't be punished if they didn't know better. That's like putting a cookie in front of a child and then spanking him for eating it, when he'd never been told it was wrong to eat the cookie. It's bad parenting, and would be bad...God...ing.
And what about gay people? If someone is a morally good person, but is gay and Christian and doesn't lie to themselves or repent for the "sin" of being gay, do they go to hell too?
Being gay is fine. There's no fault in being attracted to the same sex. But just like everybody else, gay people have to keep the commandments of God. This creates a problem if gay people can't change, because this means they basically have to live without gay sex, and they don't want heterosex. This is why many gay people struggle with, and in some cases against religion. It's a tough dillema. Honestly I don't really know the answers here.
Is being gay or atheist really that bad?
No, they're not that bad. I've already addressed being gay. Being athiest is fine, but if you decide that's the way to go, my advice is to avoid becoming so trusting of your logic, and of evidence, that you stop paying attention to those "experiences" you sound open to. There are feelings and insights I've received through my spiritual efforts whose source cannot be proven. Insights and feelings I could not have generated using my intellect (even though I'm a fricking genius). And these things mean more to me than all the chemistry and astronomy classes I ever took.