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A man sues wife over make-up !

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
The reality is she is the same person no matter what "flaws" are upon her face. If a man takes the time to know and really love a woman he shouldn't give a crap about her so called "flaws". If he does, he's a douchewaffle.
Every one had his values , some are looking for beauty and some looking for mind , we are talking for beauty .

If beauty is fake (delusion him), so man had right to accept or reject the (her) natural , when she show him her real face .
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
Every one had his values , some are looking for beauty and some looking for mind , we are talking for beauty .

If beauty is fake (delusion him), so man had right to accept or reject the (her) natural , when she show him her real face .
Choosing a wife based upon her "beauty" and not her mind, not who she is, is the act of a shallow worthless man. A man no woman should want to be with anyway. If he rejects her due to her "beauty" not being what he wants then she should just count her lucky stars to have gotten away from such a petty creature.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
The reality is she is the same person no matter what "flaws" are upon her face. If a man takes the time to know and really love a woman he shouldn't give a crap about her so called "flaws". If he does, he's a douchewaffle.
Almost all men (& women) are douchewaffles then.
We care about appearance, even though it isn't the sole attraction.
 

RRex

Active Member
Premium Member
Almost all men (& women) are douchewaffles then.
We care about appearance, even though it isn't the sole attraction.
I don't care anymore. I'm an old, fat slob . . .

. . . And enjoying the hell out of myself now that I don't care.

FREEDOM! :thumbsup:
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
I don't care anymore. I'm an old, fat slob . . .
. . . And enjoying the hell out of myself now that I don't care.
FREEDOM! :thumbsup:
Getting older does offer some advantages.
But perhaps the appearance of others matters less, when our own is sliding downhill.
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
Choosing a wife based upon her "beauty" and not her mind, not who she is, is the act of a shallow worthless man. A man no woman should want to be with anyway. If he rejects her due to her "beauty" not being what he wants then she should just count her lucky stars to have gotten away from such a petty creature.
Beauty is personal matter , so being honest with your future partner don't include to hide the face faults by make-up.

It's balance in this matter is good, sometimes you find a beautful girl had bad mind , the inverse is could be right .
and what matter too is that relation suppose to be base on honestly and sincerity.

So if the man who prefer beauty than mind , so that's her problem that she hiding her face faults from him .

If the man who prefer mind than beauty , so he could pass that (forgive her) , and continous living with her .

as I said , the balance and sincerity is good in everything :)
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
Beauty is personal matter , so being honest with your future partner don't include to hide the face faults by make-up.

It's balance in this matter is good, sometimes you find a beautful girl had bad mind , the inverse is could be right .
and what matter too is that relation suppose to be base on honestly and sincerity.

So if the man who prefer beauty than mind , so that's her problem that she hiding her face faults from him .

If the man who prefer mind than beauty , so he could pass that (forgive her) , and continous living with her .

as I said , the balance and sincerity is good in everything :)

In some ways, I lean in agreement with you here. If someone's appearance is sooooo drastically different with makeup from going without makeup, and that is the only way she presents herself to men...then, in some ways, men may assume this is her true look with subtle enhancement from makeup. The before and after pics of the OP are so drastically different, that it honestly looks like a different woman, and most people wouldn't think that without makeup, the person would appear entirely different. So, in that sense, if you are wearing makeup...going through such great lengths to disguise yourself and dupe people...then, that actually reveals more about your own character, than the person who isn't interested in you anymore, once they see the 'real you.' Just another way to view it, I suppose. :blush:

As an aside, I don't wear much makeup. Never wear 'foundation.' There have been times for parties and such, I might wear more, but most of the time, people see me without much makeup or none at all. Not that there is anything wrong with wearing a lot of makeup if a woman chooses to...but, it's just not something I personally wear a lot of.
 

RRex

Active Member
Premium Member
I'm so sick of this crap. Women are never good enough for men. No matter what we do - 10 pounds of make-up, ridiculously short skirts and dental floss bikinis, giant boobs, 10-inch stilettos, an absolute whore in bed . . .

:mad:
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
Choosing a wife based upon her "beauty" and not her mind, not who she is, is the act of a shallow worthless man. A man no woman should want to be with anyway. If he rejects her due to her "beauty" not being what he wants then she should just count her lucky stars to have gotten away from such a petty creature.
That's true, but chemistry is important and it's not something people can just 'fake.' Chemistry isn't the glue that holds relationships together, but it is what initially attracts us.
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
I'm so sick of this crap. Women are never good enough for men. No matter what we do - 10 pounds of make-up, ridiculously short skirts and dental floss bikinis, giant boobs, 10-inch stilettos, an absolute whore in bed . . .

:mad:
That's not true though...each person has his/her own ideas of what attracts them. Not all men or women are attracted to the very same physical attributes. And sexiness isn't only skin deep...
 

Godobeyer

the word "Islam" means "submission" to God
Premium Member
In some ways, I lean in agreement with you here. If someone's appearance is sooooo drastically different with makeup from going without makeup, and that is the only way she presents herself to men...then, in some ways, men may assume this is her true look with subtle enhancement from makeup. The before and after pics of the OP are so drastically different, that it honestly looks like a different woman, and most people wouldn't think that without makeup, the person would appear entirely different. So, in that sense, if you are wearing makeup...going through such great lengths to disguise yourself and dupe people...then, that actually reveals more about your own character, than the person who isn't interested in you anymore, once they see the 'real you.' Just another way to view it, I suppose. :blush:

As an aside, I don't wear much makeup. Never wear 'foundation.' There have been times for parties and such, I might wear more, but most of the time, people see me without much makeup or none at all. Not that there is anything wrong with wearing a lot of makeup if a woman chooses to...but, it's just not something I personally wear a lot of.
If she goes to work , or being beautiful for others people , that ok

My concern is about hiding her face fault from her future husband .
 

RRex

Active Member
Premium Member
That's not true though...each person has his/her own ideas of what attracts them. Not all men or women are attracted to the very same physical attributes. And sexiness isn't only skin deep...
Oh, I've just had enough of the misogynistic complaining.
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
This is an interesting thread, because while we women in today's culture do have certain pressures to look a certain way, etc...men do as well. My fiance is really into fitness, for himself but I think he feels that because we 'clicked' with chemistry early on in our relationship, that he doesn't want to lose his physique. We tell each other than no matter what we look like as time goes on, we will always be attracted to each other, not sure he believes me. :blush: So, it's not just something women feel pressure from, men feel it, too...in terms of how they look.
 
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