I gotta love this. The expectation to judge women upon their looks is so expected that there is complaining about using make up. While men are just assumed to be what? Perfect? Men don't feel that pressure to wear make up to look "pretty", women do, and when they do use make up then they are "deceiving" someone by covering up a flaw they find in themselves? If she didn't cover the flaw before you got to know her would you have bothered or just write her off? Men expect to be taken just how they are and not have their flaws pointed out to them, yet a woman is "damned if she do and damned if she don't". If a man is that damn shallow as to dump a woman because he doesn't like what she looks like without make up on then I'd say that's one HUGE flaw in the man and she should be happy to be rid of him. She can wear make up, have plastic surgery, botox, or any number of things to change the way she looks (if she so feels like doing so), but such a man will still be a douche. There ain't no fix for being a douche.