to the women, would you rather have your husband:
cheat on you behind your back and later find out about it
OR
would you rather have him come up to you and say "i want to marry another woman also" and discuss it with him?
(if he was to marry another woman, then you should both have a house each, be free to work if you wanted but to keep the money for yourself etc)
whats the reasoning behind your answer?
there will be a few follow up threads to this. i will post the links to this OP.
EDIT: here are the links
A poll for the men of RF