If that's how you interpret it and feel it would work in your own life, sure. That's not how this "position" - in quotes because this your term - plays out in mine. I didn't realize we were engaged in battle with victory and defeat conditions.
But since we are, what did I loose? Ah, no need to answer. Whatever you say, yes. Also, no.
This interaction started because you challenged what I said and implied that it was somehow offensive to you. Despite the fact that I actually said it to defend religious people against the usual facile atheist "religious people don't think critically" criticisms. And you proceeded to make a point that was overtly self-contradictory.
If you want a different kind of conversation, you have the power to influence that outcome.