I actually checked on the map when you first mentioned a place in Spain south the Pyrenees and Lourdes, and I intuited it may be around the Jaca area. And of course it is evident that you had a connection with the folk in Colorado with Spanish blood. Btw, are you a Latino in this life?
It is said in Theosophical literature that family members tend to reincarnate together so as to progress together. People are not all equal in the evolutionary context and it is normal that those at the same level form closer bonds than those at other levels as they share much more in common as to the sort of life's lessons and challenges to be learned and overcome.
I must say you have opened up to a lot of stuff that the 'normal' person is not yet opened to. Was there a time when you suddenly became aware of the synchronicities and psychic phenomena, or did it unfold gradually? When it happens suddenly, it can be likened to a higher chakra opening, and it can cause much imbalance in one's life, for the mind needs answers to so much amazing stuff that it was previously unaware of, that it can become somewhat manic, and the opposite, but you seem to be managing ok.
So where do you think your life's experiences are leading, is there a goal in your mind in the larger context of existence beyond the trials and tribulations, both good and bad, of this physical world's reality?