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Abortion

Brickjectivity

Veteran Member
Staff member
Premium Member
What you mean is, you wouldn't like to give them rights. By the way, how would you feel about a pregnant woman using heroin while pregnant?
People cannot give rights in the USA. You're thinking of Europe where humans grant rights. Heroin is not good. That's what I think.

A baby does not need the mother's love to live, actually. (Mothers have many responsibilities and as important as love is, I think it is over emphasized while other responsibilities are neglected) a baby needs to be taken care of. One can take care of a baby even if he/she doesn't love the baby.
If you don't love the baby you aren't taking care of it properly. With babies its not simple feeding or diapering or napping. Love is required, not only because of the "many responsibilities" but because of the baby intrinsically needing actual love. Adults need love, but babies need it for survival and mental development.

As for the obligation of fulfilling the basic needs of the baby, they are on the mother, and if she fails, the baby is rightly taken away from her. She can give her baby away also if she knows she won't be fulfilling those rights. But a child is not taken away from the carer just because he/she doesn't love the baby.
Is it right to take a baby away from the mother? I think you want to talk about it in the special condition you provide about mothers strung out on heroin. It doesn't change that a baby needs love, and it can come from another caregiver. Babies will also stimulate us to love them, so its not that hard to do. If a parent is difficult a baby will learn how best to obtain loving responses. Babies do this instinctively which psychologists call it a survival strategy often resulting in CPTSD. That's why some are against Ferberizing babies (a method of helping them learn to self sooth).

Mothers strung out on heroin are probably going to cause problems for the baby.
 

Argentbear

Well-Known Member
You must have a vastly different definition than do I:


And to follow up with person:

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Is this a person?
 

Pawpatrol

Active Member
Heroin is not good. That's what I think.
But you don't think that the baby has any "right" to not have it at that time.

If you don't love the baby you aren't taking care of it properly
Love is an emotion. A caregiver can certainly care for a person without loving them. Usually love comes along when it comes to babies but there is no reason to think that love is necessary in order to take care of a baby. Not loving a baby doesn't mean the caregiver doesn't fulfill the baby's basic needs (unless love is counted as one).

Sure love is important, but lack of it doesn't automatically mean game over. And there are plenty of terrible mothers who do love their children.
Is it right to take a baby away from the mother
If she doesn't take care of her baby's basic needs, then yes. Of course.
 

McBell

Unbound
When you have to run to a dictionary to prove your point, you've already conceded your point.
When you refuse to provide a definition you have lost yours.

Now I can not help but wonder what the general consensus will be as to who is the biggest loser here:

your off the wall definition that you flat refuse to support​
or​
my definition that was supported in the very post it was presented in.​
 

McBell

Unbound
What makes it a human being?

Your definition says that a human being is an individual. That isn't an individual. It has no consciousness. It has no identity.
It is not an individual?
Just how many do you think it is?

And why did you use "that" instead of "those" and "it" instead of "them"?
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Definition one of human being.
definition one of person

yes
Seems that an unfertilized egg and a sperm cell on their own both also meet your definition of "person".

Both are not only individuals, but unique individuals. Both are human.

... and both are alive (though this wasn't explicitly in your definition).
 

mikkel_the_dane

My own religion
It is not an individual?
Just how many do you think it is?

And why did you use "that" instead of "those" and "it" instead of "them"?

If you track individual -> person -> the personality of a human being : self
So is that a self as in the union of elements (such as body, emotions, thoughts, and sensations) that constitute the individuality and identity of a person?
 

McBell

Unbound
Seems that an unfertilized egg and a sperm cell on their own both also meet your definition of "person".

Both are not only individuals, but unique individuals. Both are human.

... and both are alive (though this wasn't explicitly in your definition).
My presented definition does do that.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Pretty much


Nope


How so?
If you were being consistent, you would be arguing for similar treatment - legal or ethical - of unfertilized eggs, sperm, and embryos.

... unless you don't consider your definition of "personhood" to have a bearing on treatment of a thing. Is that the case?
 

It Aint Necessarily So

Veteran Member
Premium Member
can you guys offer me your perspectives on what makes abortion acceptable?
I'm with the majority here. The issue isn't whether one should have an abortion or not, but who makes that decision - the pregnant woman (some add "and her doctor," but I don't agree with that) or the church using the power of the state to force an unwanted birth. That's pretty easy for me. B.

Also, the ethics of abortion don't change with language. You can call a fetus a person, a human being, a baby, a child, or anything else. Those words don't make it go from unethical to ethical for me. Just the stage of gestation.

Nor does calling legal abortion murder change anything.

And I'm not "for abortion." I'm for freedom of choice. I would prefer that nobody ever wanted or had an elective abortion (one not for medical reasons) or an unwanted pregnancy, but that doesn't matter and that won't happen. I prefer that when that happens, the woman charts her course, not Christian theocrats.

I've never been the father in an unwanted pregnancy and so never recommended or tried to talk somebody out of an abortion or had a fetus I helped conceive be aborted.

I was a physician, but never participated in or witnessed an abortion, and wouldn't want to.
 
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