Some more thoughts on becoming a Stripper.
So your boyfriend isnt all that thrilled, sorry to hear that. And for all those folks who are saying to ignore his concerns that is not an option. If the two of you are in a real relationship then you have a partnership and his feelings and concerns are as important to the relationship as yours are. While it is your body and your life, the relationship belongs to both of you. If you consider the relationship as a contract between too parties, you are effectively renegotiating the conditions of the contract. While very difficult, it is best to try and discuss the situation and dont try to resolve it too quickly. Such a change will take time to adjust to and while his immediate response is no way, given time to think on it he may come around. But backing him into a corner could solidify the opinion and pride will not let him change it. Plant the seed and let it grow.
As for the job itself, I recommend going to the old Pros and Cons list but try categorizing it. It might shed some new light on it. I break the human condition up into three aspects; the physical, the mental and the spiritual (emotional). So work up a Pros and Cons for each of these aspects, here is a start.
The Physical
Pros
You will be in the best shape ever. The workout that stripping gives your body is amazing.
Cons
Drugs. You will be surrounded by drugs and there will be some peer pressure to take them. Also, some management sees drug addiction as a method of control.
Injury. There is always a danger that someone will take to much of an interest in you and it could lead to physical harm.
Mental
Pros
Money. You can makes lots of money doing this.
Cons
Hard to think of a Con on the Mental side.
The Spiritual (Emotional)
Pros
Hard to think of a Pro on the Spiritual side.
Cons
Being a Stripper can make you Jaded. You are constantly exposed to the worst side of humanity. So much exposure can wear you down and cause you to generally see the worst in people rather than the best. The exact same thing happens to cops, just look at their divorce rate. I think this is the most dangerous aspect of the job.
Now, take this and add what you can think of to it and maybe it will help you in your decision, or help to show your boyfriend that you are considering all aspects of the situation and not just going into it blind.
Hope that is helpful.