I have to follow up on this,
@KenS , because you've made me a tad cross.
Look, you may have been perfect as a youth, never tried to pressure a girl in high school into "going all the way," (although you would be one of a smaller percentage than those who are transgender in that case!). And maybe you never promised a girl in college that, if she would just "give in" that marriage was assured. When in fact marriage is not only not assured but not even on that young man's mind, however much the girl may love him.
But guess what, this happens. And I guarantee you, it happens a lot. We are human, and because we are human we are going to make mistakes, we are going to believe false promises, we are going to be conned. All of us, one time or another, in one way or another. And all of us, even with out best intentions, are going to falsely promise and con others -- maybe not terribly egregiously, but we are going to.
I get that you think people should be "perfect" like Jesus, but people aren't Jesus -- they're people. And if I am not mistaken, Jesus is said to have had some compassion for their mistakes.