I think its highly unlikely Jesus had a wife or was romantically involved with a woman. The canonical Gospels mention Jesus mother, father, brothers and sisters but no mention of a wife or lover. With most men a wife is the closest person to him, but Jesus never even hints at a wife. He had created many parables using every day things. He had the opportunity to incorporate a wife into any one of them, but never did. It would have been uncommon at Jesus age not to be married, but it is not something unheard of. The Essenes were celibate at least most of them were. Today celibacy is uncommon, but it does exist. Catholic priests come to mind. None of the non-canonical Gospels mention Jesus having a wife either. If we lump all the known Gospels together, there is more to support Jesus being single rather than being married.