I think you’ve gone further than that, you’ve argued that civilians (in a democracy) are automatically “guilty” of the actions of their governments and suggested they are as legitimate targets as armed attacking emery soldiers. You’ve also implied that any act is legitimate against civilians that the attackers believe (or claim to believe) will hasten the end of the conflict, not excluding any of the acts or weapons that are explicitly prohibited by international law at the moment.
I disagree. I’d suggest most civilians are of the mind of hoping all the killing ends soon so they can get on with their lives. Most military conflicts are somewhat distanced from the day-to-day needs and desires of the average citizen, especially with the complexity of modern day conflicts.
Indeed, where they have done nothing to oppose their democratically elected government and have therefore not used any of the channels available in their democracy to protest or stop the actions of their government - then indeed an enemy force must assume the civilians are government sympathisers and must assume they are hostile and therefore legitimate targets of their violence (assuming they have decided to go the violence route).
I'm reminded in this connection of Mohammed Ali. He was expected to go fight and kill the Viet Cong whom he had never met and who had never brought any harm to him. His reply was this:
I ain’t draft dodging. I ain’t burning no flag. I ain’t running to Canada. I’m staying right here. You want to send me to jail? Fine, you go right ahead. I’ve been in jail for 400 years. I could be there for 4 or 5 more, but I ain’t going no 10,000 miles to help murder and kill other poor people. If I want to die, I’ll die right here, right now, fightin’ you, if I want to die. You my enemy, not no Chinese, no Vietcong, no Japanese. You my opposer when I want freedom. You my opposer when I want justice. You my opposer when I want equality. Want me to go somewhere and fight for you? You won’t even stand up for me right here in America, for my rights and my religious beliefs. You won’t even stand up for my rights here at home.”
Who did Ali see as his enemies? Was it only the white people who actively created laws to oppress black people? What about those who were merely happy with the status quo and saw no reason for it to change? What about those who couldn't care either way - in other words they are fine if their government continues to oppress blacks but wouldn't care if they stopped? Are they not also his "opposers"? Are they not also contributing to his oppression?
Sometimes, HonestJoe, the situation is such that being a neutral just isn't an option.
Look at the multiple and constantly shifting front lines in Syria for example? By your argument, civilians would be legitimate targets for the enemies of whoever holds that territory that day. If you’re a civilian trapped in a Aleppo, one day the Syrian army might hold the ground but the next ISIS take control. Do the civilians effectively change sides and legitimacy as targets on that basis? Your principle simply makes no sense in the real world.
Do not twist the situation. Is ISIS a democratic institution? Are the rebels democratically elected? Are the conquerors of a captured town or city democratically elected? There was a specific reason why I mentioned a democracy and not some totalitarian state where people have no choice about what is happening in their country other than perhaps resorting to war.
What if your country is attacking the neighbouring country for legitimate reasons – say they were building up forces on the border and openly planning an unprovoked attack themselves? Would the foreign terrorist group still be justified in kidnapping, raping, torturing and executing your family as a consequence? Would a native terrorist group that opposed the government actions be justified in attacking your family because you supported the government?
Again you are going outside the parameters. I repeat I am not commenting on the causes of war and whether or not they are just. I am merely commenting on the status of civilians once the war has been declared.