That's true - I'd be interested to hear other insights! Part of how our training was done was putting emphasis on not further berating or stigmatizing (or "tough love" language) because that tends to just erect more walls in the person who is struggling which makes them more likely to close off again instead of seeking help - a defensive reaction that you might characterize as an ego thing? Ours might've been oriented that way because berating students - calling them out as "addicts" or "deluded" similar - is just kind of not appropriate in our context. Maybe harsh language and "tough love" was part of what helped your journey?Dude, I AM one of the people you trained to be so sensitive to. And I understand the hard facts of addiction intimately. I've been sober for 30 years and have sponsored and helped many others to get and stay sober as well. Addiction is a disease, but not just of our biology. If it were, we'd have a pill for it. But it's also a mental and emotional illness, as well as a biological compulsion. And our ego plays a big part in the wall of denial that addicts create for themselves. In fact, "hitting bottom" is largely about breaking down that wall of denial and self-delusion so the addict can finally see what they have become. And that they are powerless to fix it. That insane ego has to finally be crushed so that the addict can learn, again.
In any case, I think I understand better why you might use this metaphor given your personal experiences. I'm still not sure I agree with it, but it makes sense even if it is going to rub some others the wrong way.