Thanks. He is not a full-fledged boyfriend yet, he is a telephone boyfriend I met on a dating site.
That works for me for now because I don't like dating. Hopefully, he will eventually come to where I live and I will meet him in person. Meanwhile it is the telephone and sending him e-mails he receives at the library.
Since I am so seriously into Baha'i, tonight I asked him if he would read some Baha'i books if I sent them to him and he said sure, he would be happy to, so I am going to order some books on Amazon and send the to him in the mail. I reasoned it is better to find out if he is amenable to my beliefs before I get any more involved.
Good luck in your search. Lots of people are into music, more than are into cats. I am hard pressed to find a boyfriend who wants a woman with eight cats.