The question is, is God responsible for seems to be probablistic. Who knows? My son is autistic and can't even talk at 33. Even if he did indirectly cause that, I don't hold a grudge against Him for that. Maybe He is responsible, but he's a sweet kid. I know, this is different than cancer where there is a painful death, but for the person that dies, there is eventually an end to his suffering on earth, then infinity of time after that. For the ones left behind, like probably
@Trailblazer, there is grief. That's something different. This will be a difficult time for her. There will be friends like me, and local friends that will help her afterwards. Eventually we all die, and we sail off to an infinity of time after that.