Calm down for goodness sake!
ING - NO! Bull like this about what women are, and how they should act, has gone on long enough!
Has she not let him rule over her for how many thousands of years? If women didn't like it, believe me, it would have changed a long time ago.
Don't you think?
ING - NO! - women did not LET THEM - They seized power by force and murder, - They took away all rights, money, ability to move about without a male, and put in laws to torture and KILL women that didn't follow the party line!
We have a PERFECT EXAMPLE TODAY - in Fundamentalist Islamic countries, and Sharia Law.
They torture, imprison, rape, and murder, women that try to break away from these patriarchal ideas.
All of the religions of Abraham have done the same things to women whom don't conform! We have only recently broken free from SOME of this with the Women's Movements.
I didn't say she gave up her right to make life's important choices as in who to marry, her religion and raising her children.
ING - ALL - choices that impact MY life are important! There is NO logical, or scientific reason, for a male to be making choices which impact ME - without ME!
Do you have a mate? Do you make all the choices? Do you like when he (or she) chooses? What if you had to choose everything in a partnership, would you be happy with that? I wouldn't. I'd hate to say I know about what men think but I think most men would be OK with making all the chooses. I don't know any woman but you who might like it.
ING - I am in a long term loving threesome. We make all decisions together, - as should ALL people in relationships.
If it was he chooses always or I choose always I'd choose him to choose.
ING - That is your choice to be a servant - rather than an equal partner - in your relationship. I have better things to do with my life!
Someone says man is the head of woman and that is God's arrangement. I know you don't like that but if it's true and women don't like it, then God is woman's worst enemy.