One more small digression: high five on D&D!
I've got no religious belief, I do have a worldview and a value system though. This requires 'stories' to sustain it.
The only characteristic that humans have that (as far as we know) is not shared by other animals is the need to understand the world via narrative. All other characteristics we have seem to be shared by other animals (as far as I can work out anyway).
What would you see as the defining characteristic of humanity?
I think you have read something which wasn't there. I never said you have to do anything. That said, if you want to understand a Christian society, you have to understand at least some Christian mythology. The same for Hindu, Muslim, Cherokee, Nazi or whatever.
Even many/most Western atheists are profoundly influenced by the legacy of European Christianity in their society, combined with Enlightenment rationalism and Greek philosophy (amongst others) as these are the the precursors of their value system. If you sent a Humanist back to ancient Greece or the society of the Aztecs their philosophy would elicit a lot of blank stares because they would many of the conceptual references necessary. The myths of the Humanist would seem very bizarre indeed. Just as the idea that the Spartans would kill infants that seemed weak and sent their adolescent males out to murder innocent villagers to toughen them up seems bizarre to us.
Had you grown up in Sparta you wouldn't be 'you' because you would have been told different myths. Had you been born in 9th C Iraq you would almost certainly not been an atheist. Our values depend on the stories we have been told and tell ourselves, not simply from our thought in a vacuum.
What I really meant was, if you want to understand others you need to understand their culture. Culture is shaped and transmitted by myths i.e stories/narratives that explain the meaning of things. Society requires some kind of fictive bond to tie together unrelated humans with differing and often competing aims.
I have no idea what your worldview is, but I'd be very confident that it is sustained by a system of myths/narrative that tell you what is desirable or despicable, virtuous or vulgar, profound or profane.
It's not hubris to state that if you want to understand others, you need to know what makes them tick. Would you agree that narrative is necessary for this purpose?
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I disagree with none of this.
But you have to understand the very first post I made that started this entire side conversation. . .and why I felt a little unhappy about the way the convo was going.
It's not about
wanting to understand Christianity's mythology (or whatever dominate religion you find yourself it), it's about being
forced to deal with it because there can be consequences if you say the wrong thing to offend the beliefs of others in RL.
Being an Atheist surrounded by Christians (or Muslims or Hindus or whomever) is really hard. . . There's a lot of us on these forums, but that's not true for many of us outside of them. I am alone, and whatever mythologies I might use to construct my own worldview are isolated from those I interact with daily.
I feel as if you aren't recognizing the difference between being
curious about the mythology of a religion, and having to
grimly and methodically learn about it, just to get along.
And let's face it, your no asking me to understand mythology in generals, your basically asking me to be respectful of the
dominate mythology of folks who may see my own beliefs as an affront to their sense of morality. And suggesting you may be implying that what they do to construct their own worldview as religious folk is somehow
essential to who they are as humans.
I am not speaking of you personally, but there are many people I work with every day who either insist or assume everyone around them share the "culture" of their religious beliefs, and conflate that belief as the most important facet of who they are.
I often feel a sense of tyranny from the dominate culture and religion that surround me. You may live in a freer corner of the world where religious discussion is all good times and noodle salad, but I do not live in that world.
I am respectful and curious about mythology, but you CANNOT normalize it the way you're doing, or expand its scope beyond its small role as a component of psychology, literature, or history . . .because if you do, you're essentially saying that what I deal with almost every day in RL is something that should be expected of me, and I just have to
try harder.
Can you see where I'm coming from here?
Anyway, I am enjoying your responses, and I much appreciate the thoughtful replies. At one point, I thought about Cognative Narratology as a kind of religion, but ultimately thought it was mostly a silly idea. . . If you want to get past all the silliness of my posting history, I'm sure you'll find my thoughts on the matter (at least at the time).
P.S. To answer your question, what is the defining characteristic of humanity? I have no idea. . . Does it have to be just one thing, and do you think the answer would be the same for everyone?