Ultraviolet:
I have mentioned this in past posts, I am not opposed to breast implants based on female rights. Women should have a right to control their bodies. I am opposed to them because of the social harm they create to so many women, and some men. That is why I used the analogy of smoking, breast implants are like second hand smoke, the consequences of individuals harms others.
I disagree. I think you're comparing breast implants with sexual objectification of women in the same way that porn is demonized as the cause of sexual objectification. Implants, porn, stiletto heels, short skirts, underwire bras, girdles, etc.....those aren't the problems. It's
us. And by "us" I mean people.
Look, you're trying. I applaud that. But honey, you're barking up the wrong tree. What we should be pointing the finger at is not sexual objectification of women per se, but objectifying women in
any light. It goes way beyond breast implants, such as:
A woman should have....
An agreeable personality
Good coiffed hair and polished skin
A warm smile
An endlessly nurturing spirit
Feet that will endure long days in shoes that will murder your posture (hence the pedicure bill)
A clean house
Etc.
Etc.
Etc.
In other words, a woman should be a man's "helpmeet" as well as having the education and the ability to provide for her children....there's a bunch of things we as a society burden women with, and large breasts is the
least we saddle us with culturally.
My mission has been pretty simple with women. It isn't to have a crusade against pornography (which I actually like), or breast implants (which I don't care for), or the "superwoman" syndrome (which really does more harm than any breast fascination). No, my dear, my mission has been to encourage women everywhere to do two things:
1) Speak your mind
2) Flaunt your stuff
In other words, a woman is only to be who she is and to define herself by her own standards.
That's it. Once we start defining womanhood, that's when you fellas start mystifying us and making us into this strange animal that you think can't be figured out. We're not mythical. Our brains work a little different than men's brains do, but mostly we're human like you.
And that DOES include sexual attraction based on physical attributes. However, as much as I know my husband likes looking at certain hot young ladies in tight pants (he's a butt guy
).....the minute they open their mouths, he completely loses interest if they're shallow, annoying, or unintelligent.
For your information, trdash,
most men are like that, too.