You have failed to show how it would be, and further, you claimed that it was irrelevant when people brought it up.
yeah, I am. We have a rule that punishment should not be cruel or unusual. Or is that another one you would like to chuck out so that men can have consequence free sex?
As i said, unless you can prove it. It won't matter.
Why would it be required to plant a tape recorder in the bedroom?
Except by a written agreement or recording, how else do you suggest they prove it? Perhaps you think your buddy should be able to vouch for you. Oh wait. But you don't believe that he said/ she said will be an issue.
Laws are created for several reasons. Justice being one of them.
That still doesn't mean they are allowed to go against something that is already a law, unless you first change that law.
And also, explain exactly how it is just that this one, and only this one, instance of breaking a promise should be so punitively enforced, but every single other instance is ignored by the law.
No. I don't. It is fair, there is no coercion by default, and the mental ability should be on the standard held for consent.
Oh, well, why should we ever have to look into these things? Koldo says that coercion didn't exist, so it didn't exist. Glad we got that out of the way.
Which is why i insist that 'breaking the cellphones' is the same as not doing the abortion.
Then your analogy is incomplete and therefore invalid.
This is ridiculous. She already undergoes these ''penalties'' as a result of the #1 responsibility.
Well, then good thing that her penalty for her second offense is already covered. Lucky her!
Indeed this is the direct consequence of her choice.
However, if you are a robber and you jump over a wall while running away from a house and as a result you end up losing your shoes, should your jail time be reduced because you lost your shoes?
You really fail at analogies. Come back when you have two robbers, and one promises not to rat the other one out, but ends up doing it anyway, and the rat now has to serve both robbers' terms.
Also, in general, sentences are reduced by the amount of time already spent in jail pre-sentencing. I think that would be more analogous to what is going on here.
I don't know what is so hard to understand.
If the woman is able to do it, she is going to pay for breaking her promise ( the responsibility #2 ) by assuming the full responsibility of #1. That is the price i suggest that she should pay.
And I think that if you are so bent on the idea of having the women pay more for a broken promise, then you need to find a payment that does not eliminate the man's portion of the responsibility, especially since your argument for requiring the women to pay more rests on the concept that we should all be responsible for our actions.