In the beginning WAS the word, and the word WAS with God, and the word WAS God. John 1:1
And the word became flesh. John 1:14
Unless you want to start adding to or changing the original language of these verses, they say what they say. You can let man's arguments convince you that the verses say something different. It's your choice. As for me, I'll stick with what these verses say both in the Greek and the English languages. The word WAS God!
Genesis 18. YHWH came in the form of a man. He appeared and spoke to Abraham.
Obviously, there has to be more to understanding the verse which says no man can see God and live. Abraham did see God, and he lived! Imho, no man can see God in all of His glory and live. Maybe that's what the verse means. I don't know. All I know is people saw Jesus who is God and lived. Abraham saw God in the form of a man and he lived. This fact cannot be denied.
What people saw was the human Jesus. They weren't looking at the God Jesus. That's how I see it anyway.
But no matter how you cut it, the word was with God in the beginning and the word was God.
Please note KJV is Not consistent . The same Greek grammar rule applies at Acts 28 v 6 B ...and says that he (Paul ) was ' a ' god. Yet KJV omits the ' a ' at John 1 v 1. Plus KJV adds the letter ' a ' at Acts 12 v 22
Yes, in the beginning was the Word and the Word was ' WITH ' God....
Only God was BEFORE the beginning according to Psalm 90 v 2
God was WITH No one but Himself before the beginning.
So, the Word was NOT before the beginning as God was before the beginning.
IN the beginning, and BEFORE the beginning, is Not the same.
What did John (1 v 18) say about God but that No man has seen God ->at any time.
What did John (6 v 46 ) say but Not that any man has seen the Father.
What did John (1st John 4 v 12 ] say but No man has seen God ->at any time.
What does Exodus 33 v 20 say but that No man can see God and live.
The LORD (YHWH) Gen. 18 v 1 appeared, but Not a literal appearance as verse 2 mentions three men [ angels ] stood by him. The angels visited Abraham with God's message.