I get that. And, under those circumstances, to expect them to renounce the marriage is, as I said, heartless and cruel. And any deity that would expect such is evil.
As I said the relationship works and is happy otherwise. It is only the conclusion of one of those involved that God doesn't approve of it.
You didn't say the first part. Don't let me ask you.
I didn't ask what you thought about the deity. I'm not volunteering any information either... although I could.
I'll respond to your complaint though.
If a deity decides what marriage is, and Polymath257 decides that he wants marriage to be what he wants it to be, why would Polymath257 want the deity to accept Polymath257's marriage... and Polymath257 don't want to accept the deity's marriage?
Why should the deity accept Polymath257 marriage?
Seems like Polymath257 wants to be King of kings and Lord of lords.
If God is the one that instituted marriage, it would be unreasonable for a puny human to demand that God accept anything that man calls marriage.
It would be like a man saying, "I should be able to marry a dog if I want. If I want to marry a tree, a truck... whatever, I should be able to do it."
In fact. That is exactly what is going on here, people are gritting their teeth, and raising their fist, and screaming, "*#%^ I can do what ever the #%^ I like."
It's like the famous words of AC.
Go ahead. Do what thou wilt.