When most Christians see or hear about me having statues of my God and Goddesses, they start preaching about the golden calf and that I am dumb to worship statues. I explain that I do not worship the statues and that the statues represent the Deities that I do worship. They act like this makes no sense to them. At the same time, these same Christians will kneel and pray in front of a crucifix. To them a crucifix can represent Jesus without them actually worshiping the crucifix, but if a statue or figure is representative of my Gods and/or Goddesses they don't see how this same "symbolism" they they use holds true. Can you please explain why you think this way?
They may think that you are worshiping the statue just because you identify as pagan. As if pagan means you bow down and worship inanimate objects. According to how you practice, Id say both of you do the same thing. They wouldnt call it symbolism. The crucifix (not the wood on the wall) means a lot so associating the image with a symbol is wrong. In baptist churches, they have holy water. They may not see it as such but their beliefs doesnt cover up howbimportant baptism is to the baptist denomination. As such, the water people are baptised in isnt just water.
Some people just dont get the connecton between faiths.
From a christian perspective, anything outside worship to Christ (or JW Christz Father) is wrong. So, its not so much the simalarities and differences, but what makes one right and one wrong is the origin of who is worshiped and what andbhow the object is used (grape and bread, wine and bread, water for baptism, and so forth on the pagan belief side)