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Christians, why do you hate Gays?

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
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Gen. 19:5 bring them out unto us, that we may know them
Lev. 18:22 (20:13) Thou shalt not lie with mankind ... it is abomination
Deut. 23:17 there shall be no ... sodomite of the sons of Israel
Isa. 3:9 declare their sin as Sodom
Rom. 1:27 men ... burned in their lust one toward another
1 Cor. 6:9 nor abusers of themselves with mankind
1 Tim. 1:10 them that defile themselves with mankind
Jude 1:7 as Sodom and Gomorrha ... going after strange flesh
Gen. 13:13; 18:20; Isa. 3:9; Ezek. 16:50; 2 Tim. 3:3; 2 Pet. 2:10; ...

it's all through the scriptures...
Correction: it's all through the (really poor exegesis of) the scriptures.
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
I agree that everything is not done, some things are though.

Then this means the Old Law stands intact... burning bullocks, stoning back-talking children, smiting thy neighbor who works on Saturday, the whole megilla. Gillette Pro-Glide razors are a fast-track to damnation. :eek:
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
line upon line, precept upon precept.. It is unlawful for a child to drive a car, but not for a responsible adult to drive. Why? The adult is "accomplished", has the proper training, and experience. OT vs. NT, Those within the OT did not have the example of Jesus to lead them, they did not have an understanding of his sacrifice, they did not have as much to build upon as we do, so they were under a different set of laws.
First of all, I know some kids who are better and more responsible drivers than some adults who've been driving for 40 years.

Second, if you believe in some magical "atonement," IMO, you shouldn't throw stones at those whom you "think" are "less understanding."
 

Penumbra

Veteran Member
Premium Member
If it were an either or choice - either
a.) drop the bomb, and quickly bring the war to an abrupt end - or -
b.) don't drop the bomb (in which case the war would last many more years, and claim many more lives than the bombs claimed)

Did the dropping of the atomic bomb save lives

Majority Supports Use of Atomic Bomb on Japan in WWII

I know we would like to think that no-win scenarios like this don't exist, that there must be some other, better solution... but sometimes you really are stuck between a rock and a hard place, you have to choose the lesser of two evils...

I think God is able to see the big picture - which does not always include a perfect solution, because we are imperfect. I think it came down to choosing the lesser of two evils, but I have faith, that in the end, we will have all been refined in the fire, that all tears will be wiped away, that we will gain an understanding between good and evil, and will all desire to choose the good.
Japan had been losing the war for years at that point. The United States spent four years pushing them back. They were no longer capable of a significant threat against the United States homeland. And then the United States purposely dropped nuclear bombs on civilian cities, which you support.

And somehow you tied moral relativism into the argument of the morality of homosexuality, as though moral relativism doesn't exist despite making the argument that mass-slaughter of non-combatants is sometimes okay.
 

Dingbat

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Japan had been losing the war for years at that point. The United States spent four years pushing them back. They were no longer capable of a significant threat against the United States homeland. And then the United States purposely dropped nuclear bombs on civilian cities, which you support.

And somehow you tied moral relativism into the argument of the morality of homosexuality, as though moral relativism doesn't exist despite making the argument that mass-slaughter of non-combatants is sometimes okay.

Indeed, not to mention Tokyo had been torched to the ground via firebombing and most of their infrastructure was in ruins. Add that up with the mountains of evidence from people like President Hoover, General Eisenhower, Admiral Leahy, and even psycho General MacArthur saying the bombing was unnecessary and America had already had offers of peace talks from Japan in the beginning of 1945.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Let me clarify: validating all laws or happenings in scripture.
My point is, why do you need to invalidate what is clear, by other laws you deem unfit.let us stick to the laws in question pertaining to this debate, It is obvious you do not accept the Bible as the word Of God. ok, I do, and it is my vote that you are acusing as hateful.
My point is, it's not nearly so "clear" as you accuse it of being. If you think that the bible is the "word of God," why are you treating the interpretation of it in so slipshod a manner?

None of that has anything to do with my opinion that your vote is complicit in the systemic dehumanization of a minority, which is a hate-filled act.
 

idea

Question Everything
Then this means the Old Law stands intact... burning bullocks, stoning back-talking children, smiting thy neighbor who works on Saturday, the whole megilla. Gillette Pro-Glide razors are a fast-track to damnation. :eek:

Let's not exaggerate...
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
Since it was ignored the first time:

You know, I strongly disagree with Christianity, yet I would never vote to take away your right to believe, speak and practice as you wish (provided you not violating the rights of others in the process). If you think something is "sinful", then don't do it, but don't try to impose your beliefs upon those who don't share them. How would you like it if you weren't allowed to eat hamburgers just because Hindus believe it's immoral?
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
Also, people need to learn how to differentiate between the concept of god itself and how different religions, cultures, time periods, etc. have perceived and portrayed the concept god (which is usually nothing more than a projection of their own egos, emotions, fears, prejudices, cultural norms, etc.) An ancient tome written by primitive goat herders doesn't have a monopoly upon nor power over god.

If there is/was a god, "he" would be a being of pure love and pure logic. Therefore anything devoid of compassion or reason cannot be of god.
 
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idea

Question Everything
...if you believe in some magical "atonement,"

I do believe in the atonement, it brings me peace and joy, as does trying to follow the commandments of a loving God who only wants the best for all of us. I lived without God's guidance for a big chunk of my life, and find that life is much better when I don't fight against what God would have me do.

I see a lot of anger, and pain, and mistrust on this thread. Many are unable to clearly see the people around them because they have learned to live in a defensive/untrusting/paranoid state. You want a scapegoat to blame, and so you imagine what lies within the hearts and minds of others... If you were able to put aside your paranoia and defensive walls for a bit, you might be surprised to find the people around you are not as unloving as you think... that they have a lot more love for you, then you have for them...
 

Dingbat

Avatar of Brittania
I do believe in the atonement, it brings me peace and joy, as does trying to follow the commandments of a loving God who only wants the best for all of us. I lived without God's guidance for a big chunk of my life, and find that life is much better when I don't fight against what God would have me do.

I see a lot of anger, and pain, and mistrust on this thread. Many are unable to clearly see the people around them because they have learned to live in a defensive/untrusting/paranoid state. You want a scapegoat to blame, and so you imagine what lies within the hearts and minds of others... If you were able to put aside your paranoia and defensive walls for a bit, you might be surprised to find the people around you are not as unloving as you think... that they have a lot more love for you, then you have for them...

:biglaugh:
 

Lady B

noob
Since it was ignored the first time:

It was not ignored, I answered you. I must vote for my own personal beliefs and My beliefs stem from my scriptures. I cannot vote in support of something God condemns, Please tell me how I can? How can you vote against something you absolutely believe is God's way?

I have tried you know, I have really tried to find the loophole, because in many ways I sincerely see your side, I do.I do not wish gays to be discriminated against, My God my own flesh and blood is involved here. If I could find a way to justify support by God, Believe me I would do it so fast. I am not a hateful forceful person. I do not expect the country to be run by any one way system. But you also need to be fair and acknowledge that your own personal beliefs are reflected in your votes, why shouldn't they be? It is your voice.

I came to this debate not to push my side, but to see if there is a possibility I am wrong. You just haven't convinced me, and I am not happy about that in fact I feel defeated. I would love it if you can show me how God would allow this not from a humanistic approach, as I can't agree, But show me Homosexual unions are condoned in scripture and I will concede without grudge and you will have my vote
.:)
 
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fantome profane

Anti-Woke = Anti-Justice
Premium Member
Good question. If divorce laws were put on the table then I would vote per my convictions also. I believe divorce is only allowed for the reason Jesus gave ,That of adultery. As for second marriages, I believe it is only allowed when one is Biblically free from the marriage by means of adultery. If there is a ballad that asks me to oppose or allow, I will vote according to scripture.I don't agree Christians singled out this same sex marriage issue, it just happens to be on the ballad and so we must vote according to our beliefs.

So who do you think has singled out the issue of same sex marriage?

These issues don't just randomly magically appear on the ballet. Do you think divorce should be voted on? If so what are you personally doing to get it on the ballet? And if you are doing nothing about other people's divorces why not?
 

Penumbra

Veteran Member
Premium Member
I do believe in the atonement, it brings me peace and joy, as does trying to follow the commandments of a loving God who only wants the best for all of us. I lived without God's guidance for a big chunk of my life, and find that life is much better when I don't fight against what God would have me do.

I see a lot of anger, and pain, and mistrust on this thread. Many are unable to clearly see the people around them because they have learned to live in a defensive/untrusting/paranoid state. You want a scapegoat to blame, and so you imagine what lies within the hearts and minds of others... If you were able to put aside your paranoia and defensive walls for a bit, you might be surprised to find the people around you are not as unloving as you think... that they have a lot more love for you, then you have for them...
One thing noticeable throughout the centuries is that those who are on the side of hatred, ignorance, discrimination or injustice rarely flat out admit to it or even perceive themselves to be that.

Very few people ever say, "Yes I'm hateful, and my actions are out of hatred and irrationality and my arguments are poor" despite much of the world's problems being due to hatred.

When slavery existed, people in favor of it didn't make the argument: "Yes, I'm in favor of slavery. I'm immoral and selfish and history will forever view me in the wrong." Instead, they used attempts at reason and Biblical claims to support their institution.

When women didn't have the right to vote, most men didn't say, "Yeah, I'm sexist. I like feeling superior. I'll be on the wrong side of history forever" Instead, they made arguments about women being of inferior minds, as though they held the rational position.

When minorities were fighting for equal civil rights, and people opposed them, they didn't say, "Yeah, we're bigots. We're in favor of inequality and discrimination. We enjoy being on the negative pages of history books." Instead, they argued for 'separate but equal' (which was not equal).

Now, when consenting adults want to marry and people who have no business imposing on their lives end up imposing on their lives anyway with legal discrimination of marriage based on sexual orientation, none of them ever say, "yeah, we're homophobes. We hate. We're on the wrong side of history too." Instead they argue that 'God' is on their side and that homosexuality is weird.

And frankly, many of them are partially right. They don't view themselves as hateful or discriminatory or ignorant of the views of professionals on these issues. My family members that are against gay marriage despite knowing nothing about it and having no rational basis against it are loving people in 90% of their lives, but it doesn't change the fact that their voting habits are hurting people and that 20 years from now, history will very likely view their side as being clearly in the wrong.
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
I have really tried to find the loophole

don't worry, I've found it for you; the bible is an ancient book written by primitive savages and has absolutely nothing to do with any real god that may or may not exist. Anyone can put words in the mouth of "god", but we need to learn to look past the self-appointed and self-serving middlemen.

God didn't gift you with the ability to reason and the capacity for compassion only for you to forgo their use. :)
 

Penumbra

Veteran Member
Premium Member
It was not ignored, I answered you. I must vote for my own personal beliefs and My beliefs stem from my scriptures. I cannot vote in support of something God condemns, Please tell me how I can? How can you vote against something I absolutely believe is God's way?
I already suggested to you how you can.

If you feel something to be wrong, don't do it. Don't use laws to stop other people from doing it. I don't use laws to stop you from doing things I find immoral. :shrug:

I have tried you know, I have really tried to find the loophole, because in many ways I sincerely see your side, I do.I do not wish gays to be discriminated against, My God my own flesh and blood is involved here.
Correction: Your interpretation of your religion's interpretation of 'God' is involved here.

You never answered my question about how large of a subset of all religious scriptures you have read, and your answer to how you have come to believed that the papers you use as scripture are in any way valid words from 'God' is pretty much that you have no answer.

If I could find a way to justify support by God, Believe me I would do it so fast.
Evidence in this thread leads to the contrary conclusion.

I am not a hateful forceful person. I do not expect the country to be run by any one way system. But you also need to be fair and acknowledge that your own personal beliefs are reflected in your votes, why shouldn't they be? It is your voice.
In a country that explicitly prohibits religion being the basis of a law, you're using your religion as the basis of your vote to put into law discrimination towards people based on sexual orientation, and it's hurting them.

I came to this debate not to push my side, but to see if there is a possibility I am wrong. You just haven't convinced me, and I am not happy about that in fact I feel defeated. I would love it if you can show me how God would allow this not from a humanistic approach, as I can't agree, But show me Homosexual unions are condoned in scripture and I will concede without grudge and you will have my vote
.:)
Then begin actually addressing the arguments rather than sidestepping them.

You have to jump through a whole series of hurdles to have a logical foundation for imposing legalized discrimination against people based on homosexual orientation and you have yet to successfully argue through any single one of those hurdles, and yet you feel it impossible to stop voting in favor of limiting their rights.

:facepalm:
 

Father Heathen

Veteran Member
I see a lot of anger, and pain, and mistrust on this thread. Many are unable to clearly see the people around them because they have learned to live in a defensive/untrusting/paranoid state. You want a scapegoat to blame, and so you imagine what lies within the hearts and minds of others... If you were able to put aside your paranoia and defensive walls for a bit, you might be surprised to find the people around you are not as unloving as you think... that they have a lot more love for you, then you have for them...

Spare us the martyrdom nonsense. This is about freedom, rights and equality, and naturally anyone with integrity and decency will be angered when people are denied these things.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I do believe in the atonement, it brings me peace and joy, as does trying to follow the commandments of a loving God who only wants the best for all of us. I lived without God's guidance for a big chunk of my life, and find that life is much better when I don't fight against what God would have me do.

I see a lot of anger, and pain, and mistrust on this thread. Many are unable to clearly see the people around them because they have learned to live in a defensive/untrusting/paranoid state. You want a scapegoat to blame, and so you imagine what lies within the hearts and minds of others... If you were able to put aside your paranoia and defensive walls for a bit, you might be surprised to find the people around you are not as unloving as you think... that they have a lot more love for you, then you have for them...
You see a lot of anger, pain and mistrust because some are unable to see clearly that they are complicit in systemic violence against a minority. I'm not looking for a scapegoat. I'm merely hoping to call it for what it is. I'm not paranoid or defensive. And I'm not hurting for love. But I do hurt for those who are being systemically discriminated against -- and pretty incensed at the hubris of the Christian "right." We did it to the blacks; we did it to the women; now we're doing it to the gays -- all in the name of religious piety. One has to wonder who the next victim will be?
 

idav

Being
Premium Member
It was not ignored, I answered you. I must vote for my own personal beliefs and My beliefs stem from my scriptures. I cannot vote in support of something God condemns, Please tell me how I can? How can you vote against something I absolutely believe is God's way?

I have tried you know, I have really tried to find the loophole, because in many ways I sincerely see your side, I do.I do not wish gays to be discriminated against, My God my own flesh and blood is involved here. If I could find a way to justify support by God, Believe me I would do it so fast. I am not a hateful forceful person. I do not expect the country to be run by any one way system. But you also need to be fair and acknowledge that your own personal beliefs are reflected in your votes, why shouldn't they be? It is your voice.

I came to this debate not to push my side, but to see if there is a possibility I am wrong. You just haven't convinced me, and I am not happy about that in fact I feel defeated. I would love it if you can show me how God would allow this not from a humanistic approach, as I can't agree, But show me Homosexual unions are condoned in scripture and I will concede without grudge and you will have my vote
.:)

The bible doesn't say anything except that marriage can save a person from the sin of fornication. If it is wrong in the bible then the bible is wrong because it is by nature and god would be purposely condemning people. As long as no harm is occurring there is hardly an issue which is the point of the commandments of love that the law should be based on. In other words jesus wants people to use common sense regarding the law.
 
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