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Christians, why do you hate Gays?

Onkara

Well-Known Member
Paul wanted celibacy, as he thought the world was going to end soon and was only ok with marriage in a "well if you have to have sex, I guess..." sort of way.

Thanks for the input, I hadn't known why, but that is probably it because Paul speaks about the Lord coming soon, as if Jesus would return in their lifetime. He speaks about taking himself a wife from amongst them too.
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
To be fair I believe most people adhere to the stuff in that entire chapter. No relatives no inlaws no animals no sodomy etc.

I don't mean only the sexual prohibitions. I'm talking about all of them. Lady B says that Christ rendered the old law obsolete by his sacrifice, yet he himself says not one letter will be stricken from the law until all is accomplished. So this means no bacon double cheeseburgers (meat, dairy AND pork together); no peel 'n eat shrimp or All-You-Can-Eat-Shrimp at Red Lobster. I wonder if just going into Red Lobster is an abomination (I personally think it is.. they always manage to screw up my order :D). No shaving the beard, no fabric blends, no planting eggplants, peppers and tomatoes in the same little home garden. It means the entire Mosaic Law is still in effect for Jews and Christians.
 

Penumbra

Veteran Member
Premium Member
My understanding is that homosexual acts are wrong because it is for pleasure i.e. desire.

Desire of the flesh is wrong, not homosexual acts alone, they just fall into that category. So a Christian shouldn't masturbate or have any sex for pleasure, they should only copulate for reproduction.
Along those lines, Christians shouldn't eat chocolate, get massages, etc. They're for pleasure.

In many Christian denominations, sex in marriage is understood to not just be for breeding, but also for bonding.

The argument that it's for pleasure isn't a particularly strong argument unless one can show why that would be a bad thing.

According to Paul.
Paul isn't God, last time I checked. He was a guy who thought the world was ending soon.
 

Penumbra

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Ridiculous that you feel a vote is force.....a Vote is a vote is a vote,
Your vote is to reduce freedoms.

You can't separate your vote from the outcome of that vote.

I don't feel your vote is forcing me to accept your side, so why should my vote have this effect towards you?
Who here is voting for anything that reduces your freedoms? Do you have an example?

You scream injustice, well I do not agree the system in the united states is faulty, you do There are many laws on the books that I voted against, I do not scream injustice or say liberals forced their beliefs on me.So go live in a society of dictatorship and see how your voice is heard. At least here you have the same voice as I do, your entitled to vote according to your passions as I am.
The Constitution protects the minority from mob rule from the majority. Unless the Constitution is amended to say otherwise or unless the Supreme Court completely reverses its interpretation of the Constitution on this issue, any law has to have a secular basis.
 

Onkara

Well-Known Member
The argument that it's for pleasure isn't a particularly strong argument unless one can show why that would be a bad thing.

Paul isn't God, last time I checked. He was a guy who thought the world was ending soon.
Not for "pleasure" but for "desire of the flesh", pleasure can come from serving Christ. Desire is the issue because it is worldly rather than heavenly, it is selfish rather than altruistic.
 

Onkara

Well-Known Member
I don't mean only the sexual prohibitions. I'm talking about all of them. Lady B says that Christ rendered the old law obsolete by his sacrifice, yet he himself says not one letter will be stricken from the law until all is accomplished. So this means no bacon double cheeseburgers (meat, dairy AND pork together); no peel 'n eat shrimp or All-You-Can-Eat-Shrimp at Red Lobster. I wonder if just going into Red Lobster is an abomination (I personally think it is.. they always manage to screw up my order :D). No shaving the beard, no fabric blends, no planting eggplants, peppers and tomatoes in the same little home garden. It means the entire Mosaic Law is still in effect for Jews and Christians.

Paul annulled the laws when establishing the Church of Jesus Christ. Or that is how it appears to read to me. :)
 

Storm

ThrUU the Looking Glass
I agree married spouses do not have this issue in any significance,
however my point was,hetero couples that are not married struggle the same as homosexual couples who are not married, yet they still choose to have children knowing these struggles will take or could take place. And when either side chooses to have children, they put their children at risk of discrimination, not me as a voter.Is it preposterous to wait till your married to have children? And if they as a gay couple can't marry for legal reasons, then is it preposterous to wait until it is legal before bringing children into the mix at all? Really why is it my fault these children suffer? I would blame the parents for subjecting them to a legal system which is not conducive to their lifestyle.

So... it's their fault for not taking into account the fact that there are people like you who will vote to undermine their rights and hurt their families?

:sarcastic
Victim blaming is a frequent tactic of the oppressor.
 

Lady B

noob
I don't mean only the sexual prohibitions. I'm talking about all of them. Lady B says that Christ rendered the old law obsolete by his sacrifice, yet he himself says not one letter will be stricken from the law until all is accomplished. So this means no bacon double cheeseburgers (meat, dairy AND pork together); no peel 'n eat shrimp or All-You-Can-Eat-Shrimp at Red Lobster. I wonder if just going into Red Lobster is an abomination (I personally think it is.. they always manage to screw up my order :D). No shaving the beard, no fabric blends, no planting eggplants, peppers and tomatoes in the same little home garden. It means the entire Mosaic Law is still in effect for Jews and Christians.

I did not say Christ rendered the law obsolete, where did you see I said that? I said and hold to the law is perfect, It is reflecting on the perfections of God, It is also given to men to direct them to God's mercy and Christ's sacrifice and atonement. We (Christians)
are no longer under the penalty of breaking the laws for we believe Christ fulfilled the law, not obliterated it. As I pointed out previously we are still to try to obey God's moral laws, not the priestly laws and not the sacrificial laws as Jesus fulfilled them. We also know that we cannot possibly gain righteousness by keeping the laws for we fail miserably and so we rely on Christ's perfect sacrifice and the grace of God to save us from the curse of the law which is eternal death.
Those without Christ are still under the penalty and judgement of breaking the laws whether you acknowledge them or not, whether you make fun of them or not,whether you believe them or not.
:facepalm:
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
"Whoever knows what is right to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin." (James 4:17)

Let no one deceive you with empty words, for it is because of these things that the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience..." (Ephesians 5:3-6)

'If anyone sees his brother committing what is not a mortal sin, he will ask, and God will give him life for those who sin is not mortal. There is sin which is mortal; I do not say that one is to pray for that. All wrongdoing is sin, but there is sin which is not mortal.' (First John 5:16,17)
clearly you must know we all are sinners and do sin and our sin must be repented. If as you suggest Christians sins are obsolete, Read the directives given to the church for a brothers sin and how repentance must be done before bringing him back into the fold.
Like I said, the Bible is conflicted on the issue. I don't see how you can hold to the concept of sin while also holding to what Paul says: "I know and am convinced in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself."

If you're going to argue that the Bible doesn't give contradictory messages here, that's your prerogative, but it's dishonest to ignore inconvenient verses when making your argument.
why did God institute law at all then? obviously laws are important for any society, and a society that has a fair system of lawmaking where the people's voice matters, is a society I am greatful to live in, who would feel safe in a lawless society?
Yes... who would feel safe in a society where they only had the grace and power of a loving God to rely on? What's that worth? :sarcastic

Laws are given as a protection of course Jesus did not mean to support a Godless and lawlessness when He said do not worry for your clothes and food.
No... I think that passage assumes that there will be a non-Christian majority with the political power who do their own thing and make their own laws, and there would be a Christian minority who rejected all that and lived on the fringes, but still trusted that God would make sure their needs were met.

He was showing men how they rely on themselves to the extent they do not rely on God to provide for them.
Do you do any different when you vote against same-sex marriage? Isn't the god you believe in capable of ridding the world of same-sex marriage if it really did offend him?

I agree, God will provide for us and he does daily. But we must also act according to his will, not expect him to act according to ours.
Great... but first you need to ascertain his will and make sure you're right. And that doesn't just mean deciding "God hates homosexuality", but it also means deciding "God wants me to use secular law to make life difficult for gay people."

Again by using verses regarding love and understanding,This does not give support men from breaking God's laws clearly defined elsewhere in scripture.
It also doesn't mean that you're in God's good graces when you take a position that rejects love, justice and mercy.

You keep saying The Bible supports both views and accuse me of not supporting my side, when it is the opposite I see happening here, show me the verse that supports same sex marriage and or homosexuality.
Show me the verse that supports the idea that Christians should participate in voting or secular government.

You may claim that Christ did not condemn any sin, clearly wrong.
No, I claimed that Paul's writings set aside the idea of sin. If you're going to assume that Paul's words are God's, that's up to you. They are in the Bible, though.

yes he raged against the pharisees who thought themselves rightous by their view of upholding the laws, Christ showed them they did not keep the laws entirley, but only outwardly. When Christ met the adultress woman he rebuked her and said go and sin no more.So why do you get the idea If he were here today he would vote for same sex marriage? cmon, you really need to be reasonable here.
I said already that I don't think Christ would vote at all. He said many times that his kingdom was not of this world.

And when Christ said the greatest of all the laws is the commandment to love one another, he did not void the laws.and say only love one another and let God sort out the rest.
But it does mean that any position not founded in love is wrong in the eyes of Christ, regardless of whether you can find a religious justification for it.

In my opinion I am loving you by not supporting a behavior God has said is an abomination. On the contrary I have given my side and supported it well, Because you choose to ignore the blatant laws of God is only to your detrimate, not mine.

If the effect of my actions keep you from implementing a hell bound road, so be it.I see this as an act of love and concern, not hate. Your opinion, not mine or The Bible believing religions. I see you distorting the verses and context to support an agenda clearly not Biblical why? Just say you don't believe it is the word of God and walk away, you don't need to find support in something you don't believe, right?
Even if you think that homosexuality makes a person "hellbound", I don't see how taking a position that says "same-sex couples should be unmarried" makes those couples any more or less hellbound than if they were married.

There is no choice available to you that will stop homosexual people from being homosexual. The only choice you have is whether homosexual people will be married or not. Do you think that a homosexual person commits a greater sin if he or she marries than if he or she stays unmarried?
 

Drolefille

PolyPanGeekGirl
Here's what I've learned. Christians who "hate" gay people do it with the kind of controlling love that is sort of okay when you're looking at a parent child relationship, but is incredibly abusive in adult relationships.

The "i know what's best for you so I'm going to make you do it" attitude at BEST infantalizes queer adults and at WORST is the control of an abuser who will continue to beat us down until we stop standing up for ourselves. This same attitude can be seen in the Civil Rights movement, the women's lib movement and so on.

We won't be beaten down by the physical violence, nor will hateful speech, slander, and hate groups make us shut up. Our relationships are valid, and trying to force us to believe as you do will only make us reject you. Because you can't try to prove "God's love" through hate and control.

But this gives me hope:
A 2011 survey by the Public Religion Research Institute shows the generation gap between young Christians and their elders is large, with 44 percent of white evangelicals aged 18-29 in support of marriage equality compared to only 12 percent of those 65 and older.
…
“For young Christians, having gay and lesbian friends is just a part of our life,” [blogger Rachel] Held Evans said. “It’s just really hard for us to see them as mere issues to debate, because we’re talking about our friends here.”
…
“I think the main problem we have is that a lot of the folks voting about homosexuality, voting about gay marriage, don’t know any gay people,” she said. “And I’m certain that if they did, it would change their attitude.”
Bigots grow old and die off and the younger generation is far more tolerant.
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
Paul annulled the laws when establishing the Church of Jesus Christ. Or that is how it appears to read to me. :)

Paul didn't have the authority to do so. Paul usurped authority from Peter and the apostles who knew Jesus personally. Paul only met Jesus in a vision. And if I'm not mistaken, all Jesus said to him was "Saul, why are you persecuting me?" Saul was Paul's original name, he being Jewish.
 

Onkara

Well-Known Member
Paul didn't have the authority to do so. Paul usurped authority from Peter and the apostles who knew Jesus personally. Paul only met Jesus in a vision. And if I'm not mistaken, all Jesus said to him was "Saul, why are you persecuting me?" Saul was Paul's original name, he being Jewish.

Why don't Christians agree with that observation? :)
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Those without Christ are still under the penalty and judgement of breaking the laws whether you acknowledge them or not, whether you make fun of them or not,whether you believe them or not.
:facepalm:

So then... whether or not a non-Christian same-sex couple is married or not makes absolutely no difference at all.
 

Storm

ThrUU the Looking Glass
Ridiculous that you feel a vote is force.....a Vote is a vote is a vote, I don't feel your vote is forcing me to accept your side, so why should my vote have this effect towards you?
Because you vote to oppress people, and we don't.

You scream injustice, well I do not agree the system in the united states is faulty, you do There are many laws on the books that I voted against, I do not scream injustice or say liberals forced their beliefs on me.So go live in a society of dictatorship and see how your voice is heard. At least here you have the same voice as I do, your entitled to vote according to your passions as I am.
Hey, you're the one wants laws based on religion. Why don't you move to Iran?

The only reason you don't say liberals don't force their opinions on you NOW is that when you did before, it was debunked.
 

Breathe

Hostis humani generis
It means the entire Mosaic Law is still in effect for Jews and Christians.
As far as I'm aware, the Mosaic Law is only for the Jewish people, not for us Gentiles. ;)

Do you think there is a difference between not one iota being removed from the Law, and the Law becoming obsolete?
 

Drolefille

PolyPanGeekGirl
Ridiculous that you feel a vote is force.....a Vote is a vote is a vote, I don't feel your vote is forcing me to accept your side, so why should my vote have this effect towards you?
You're choosing, by your vote, to force others to behave in a manner you approve of. "You can't get married because I don't think God approves." When asked how you would feel if this right was removed from you, you dodged the question and claimed the First amendment protected you but showed no empathy for those lacking that protection.

My rights are taken away by votes like yours. MY vote does not touch your rights. It does not force you to get "gay married" or start having sex with women. Your vote specifically affects ME and until you understand that your vote actually has consequences and affects people - not "the gays" or "sinners" but PEOPLE - human beings who love and laugh and have families and children and even who have found acceptance in the same god you claim to serve. You cause them pain and you cannot wash your hands of that blood by saying "God said so."

You scream injustice, well I do not agree the system in the united states is faulty, you do There are many laws on the books that I voted against, I do not scream injustice or say liberals forced their beliefs on me.So go live in a society of dictatorship and see how your voice is heard. At least here you have the same voice as I do, your entitled to vote according to your passions as I am.
I scream injustice at the injustice in the world. At the blindness you have to the pain and suffering of others and at the lives that will be lost to it.

I can't even get you to answer a hypothetical question about living in a world where you face similar problems so telling me to leave is childish and unworthy of discussing further.

You have the right to be bigoted, no one but you has claimed otherwise. You can continue to vote to directly harm others, and I will just wait until a few more bigots die off, because people who cannot empathize with others are already too far gone to care about trying to change.
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
I did not say Christ rendered the law obsolete, where did you see I said that? I said and hold to the law is perfect, It is reflecting on the perfections of God, It is also given to men to direct them to God's mercy and Christ's sacrifice and atonement. We (Christians)
are no longer under the penalty of breaking the laws for we believe Christ fulfilled the law, not obliterated it. As I pointed out previously we are still to try to obey God's moral laws, not the priestly laws and not the sacrificial laws as Jesus fulfilled them. We also know that we cannot possibly gain righteousness by keeping the laws for we fail miserably and so we rely on Christ's perfect sacrifice and the grace of God to save us from the curse of the law which is eternal death.
Those without Christ are still under the penalty and judgement of breaking the laws whether you acknowledge them or not, whether you make fun of them or not,whether you believe them or not.
:facepalm:

Maybe it was someone else who said it. Anyway, the priestly laws, sacrificial laws and moral laws are all in the same book of Leviticus. And to repeat, Jesus himself said the old law was not abolished. He said he came not to abolish it but to fulfill it, yet he still said it would not be abolished until all things were accomplished and until heaven and earth pass away, meaning a long, indeterminate amount of time. I do not know where he said all things were now accomplished, except on the cross "it is finished" but heaven and earth are still here. So the old law stands.

You cannot have it both ways no matter how you spin it. Leviticus is Leviticus is Leviticus, no ifs, ands or buts about it. If two men lying together is an abomination, so is eating clams on the half shell. You can't pick and choose which verses stay and which go. Uncomfortable, isn't it?
 

Jainarayan

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय
Staff member
Premium Member
Why don't Christians agree with that observation? :)

Many are beginning to, but it's not what they are taught (I was part of that when I was Catholic). Many Christians are coming to see Christianity as Paulism.
 

Me Myself

Back to my username
Maybe it was someone else who said it. Anyway, the priestly laws, sacrificial laws and moral laws are all in the same book of Leviticus. And to repeat, Jesus himself said the old law was not abolished. He said he came not to abolish it but to fulfill it, yet he still said it would not be abolished until all things were accomplished and until heaven and earth pass away, meaning a long, indeterminate amount of time. I do not know where he said all things were now accomplished, except on the cross "it is finished" but heaven and earth are still here. So the old law stands.

You cannot have it both ways no matter how you spin it. Leviticus is Leviticus is Leviticus, no ifs, ands or buts about it. If two men lying together is an abomination, so is eating clams on the half shell. You can't pick and choose which verses stay and which go. Uncomfortable, isn't it?

This is actually hard, because while he said that he did not come to undo the laws, he did go against eating prohibitions when he said "do not call impure what God has made pure!" and pretty much forced his apostle to eat something that was impure according to "the law".

So Jesus´s words contradict, as they often do in a lot of things. We are left trying to find out the meaning, but it is not straightforward, and people wont agree.
 
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