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דניאל יוסף בן מאיר הירש
Those are the rules; you're free to judge it however you want. I can only speak from my own POV. I would not feel comfortable participating in certain rituals if I wasn't circumcised. I'm grateful to my parents for choosing to have it done when I was an infant.Of course the child does participate if it is allowed to participate by his religious community.
Why would you allow the bigots within your community to dictate who can and who can't participate?