I would not deny that, but India has made great progress in that field. There is no field in which Indian women have not excelled. The current debate is whether they should be given full combat roles or not.
We have a fair idea of what Brahman is. It is eternal, changeless, form-independent and uninvolved. As for Father and Mother, Sankaracharya said:
"Na me mṛityuśaṅkā na me jātibhedaḥ, pitā naiva me naiva mātā na janmaḥ;
na bandhur na mitraṃ guru naiva śişyaḥ, cidānandarūpaḥ śivo'ham śivo'ham."
I do not have fear of death nor have I discrimination on the basis of birth. I have no father or mother, nor did I have a birth. I am not the relative, nor the friend, nor the guru, nor the disciple. I am the form of eternal bliss, the auspicious (Śivam), I am indeed, Shiva.
Atma Shatkam - Wikipedia (Six verses of Advita)
The only thing that puzzles me is that whether Brahman can go into non-existent phase? I have a doubt that it can. Existence and non-existence belong to human perspective. Probably, Brahman is not bound by it, and that is why 'Zero Energy Universe' and 'Creatio Ex-nihilo' are possibilities.
The question of Father and Mother arises when one believes in duality or multiplicity. For a believer in non-duality, there is no other. That is why I am an atheist. I was it before the earth formed, I am it while I live, I will be it even after my physical death.
Please note: These are my views on Advaita. These do not in any way impinge of different Advaita views that other Hindus may have.