In love, sure, I can buy that. But in status the woman was still property. You're saying that the at some point prior to 30 AD the Hebrew people changed from viewing women as property. Ok, what evidence do you have to support that? At what point did the change take place? Surely such a serious change in cultural attitude would have some historical markers. The passage you reference is not evidence of this level of change. Sure it can be argued that the passage teaches love, caring and tolerance for the women in a man's life but you can show all of those emotions and attitudes for any piece of property.
Of course, you're certianly welcome to take whatever message you wish from Paul. If it helps you spiritually, it can't be wrong.