According to the biblical perspective,
hell is not really about being good because all people fall short of God’s goodness and holiness. It’s about being separated from our Creator God for eternity and the suffering that will be because God is the only Source of love, joy, beauty, or anything which brings satisfaction...
“Many people have suffered the excruciating pain of being terribly burned in this life. By your reasoning, God is to blame for their suffering because He constituted the human body with nerves that could feel pain. Yet those nerves were designed to warn of disease or other destructive forces at work in the body, and thus to save life.
More than one leprous person in primitive societies has had part or all of a foot burned off by a campfire before noticing what was happening because he couldn’t feel the pain. Any doctor will tell you that pain is a marvel that helps to preserve the body—and that pain and life are so inextricably linked as to be inseparable. Pain sends a vital message that we need to heed.
The “fire” of hell and the “burning” torment of the doomed and damned are consistently likened to thirst. When we look at it in that way we come to a better understanding: that the suffering of hell exists not because of God’s desire to punish but because of His love. He loved man so much that He made him an eternal being capable of knowing Him and dwelling with Him forever. In His love, He so constituted man that fellowship with God is no mere option and thus of little enjoyment. No, it is vital to his very being and thus brings infinite pleasure and satisfaction.
If God made us to have fellowship with Him and to draw our life and purpose from His direction over us, then the moment we divorce any part of life from Him, whether it be knowledge or love, it becomes polluted and perverted, a caricature of what was intended. That fact is observable everywhere. Man may not experience the thirst for God in this life when he is surrounded with like-minded friends and the pleasures of this world. He is like a man in the Sahara desert who, early in the morning, refuses to take the water offered to him; but in the heat of the day, he is dying for lack of the water he earlier despised.
That the Bible likens separation from God’s life and fellowship to a burning thirst provides a metaphor that helps us to understand in some measure what both heaven and hell will be like. Following that analogy, we realize that hell’s suffering will be so excruciatingly painful for the very same reason that heaven will be SO exquisitely joyful. That is the way with thirst unquenched—or satisfied.
It is easy to understand that the person dying of thirst burns with torment for the same reason that a drink of cold water quenching one’s thirst tastes and feels so good. Our insight becomes even clearer when we remember that thirst burns and torments, and quenching that thirst soothes and exhilarates, because water is absolutely essential to life. In like manner, hell will feel so bad and heaven so good because the intimacy and fullness of God’s presence and love is as essential to our spiritual life as water is to our physical life.
Those in hell will burn with an unquenchable thirst for the love of God for which they were made and from which God never intended them to be separated. There is absolutely no quenching of this moral and spiritual thirst for those in hell because they have by their own choice cut themselves off from God for eternity.”
quoted from Dave Hunt