Subduction Zone
Veteran Member
I used to do a lot of reading on this kind of stuff because it totally fascinated me. I probably had the same Houdini book.
Before she died, my Nana and I actually made a similar arrangement to the one Houdini and his wife made. Our word was "Wowie Doo-doo." (Something she used to say.) And if it turned out she couldn't convey a message to me in word form, she promised that she would grab me by the collar, like she used to do to us kids on a cold day and tell us to zip our coats up. I figured that would be noticeable.
She's been gone for 7 years now. She hasn't shown up yet to grab my collar, nor did she show up the two times my mother and I visited with a psychic, just for fun. I guess I'll keep waiting.
I got a shock one day when my mother called me from "the other side". She had passed away but I got a cell phone call that said "Mom". Turned out to be my brother. The phone number had been in the family for so long he decided to keep it. But that did cause me to jump when I first saw that.