Lol, you know ive been reading your posts for quite a bit now and I think that although your heart wants to find, and accept this concept of God, you are too realistic and sensible about its teachings. I don't think you will ever be anything more than a skeptic in this way. No worries though, im right there with you. I deeply want to believe in a God being, an afterlife, and that something deeper is happening beneath the surface. I mean, just imagine how cool a GOD being actually existing would be! Unfortunately our reality would likely be a bit more interesting than the seeming nothingness we experience atm. It appears to all be wishful thinking as far as reality tells it thus far, not that im against being wrong about this. I would prefer my stance to be wrong, my stance unfortunately has much fewer holes I can punch through it than the millions I can throw at religion.
To answer the question however! Yes, the concept of hell is one of the worst concepts the Bible teaches. One of the first things that started me on the opposite track from Christianity was being taught, firmly, about the consequences of losing faith and of those who had no faith, that being hell of course. The problem was I liked people, I enjoyed all kinds of people, I found many people who werent Christians to be just as full of love and kindness as Christians. In my mind non Christians MUST of been evil, sick, disgusting people, they couldn't be kind people because God was a nice guy! Right? He wouldnt hurt innocents for just not believing in something right? It was somewhere around this moment I started to see God as a more petty being and not quite the God I had imagined for years. Ehh, its just a relic from the past from people who adopted a being and tried to make him fit their reality, it doesnt exist and if a God truly did exist and held these rules we are all doomed. He is more twisted than the most evil villain on the planet in that case.