Tell me you haven't read about the debate concerning libertarian free will vs. hard determinism without telling me you haven't read about the debate concerning libertarian free vs. hard determinism.
The following article deals with part of the question by addressing hard determinism vs soft determinism and the concept of Will called compatibilism. I do not fully agree with compatibilism, but is a good start for the middle road.
Compatibilism
We were raised in a culture that teaches us or encourage us to believe that we have free will and are responsible for our actions. On the other hand there is the belief that humans are not responsible for their actions: that there are forces over which we have no control and that our actions are causal. Which means that there are antecedent causes that explains behaviour such as the laws of nature e.g. gravity, and also conditioning. If we were to consider some basic human behaviour like response to stimuli we might argue that humans are determined, but then there are voluntary actions which are as a result of our desires and emotions, which would make it seem like we are free.
This problem of free will and determinism has attracted many great minds that have put forth some very attractive arguments in support of their beliefs. The different positions on this issue are: Libertarianism – which is the theory that humans are entirely free and are first cause for all their actions. Determinism – there is Hard Determinism with the belief that all actions are caused and then there is Soft Determinism or Compatibilism – a third position that tries to combine the best of the other two positions, which says that although everything is determined we can still act voluntarily (Pojman 324). I will to the best of my ability present conclusive arguments and counter arguments for each of these positions and then give my support and defend the one I consider to be the most reasonable – Compatibilism.
Determinism is the theory that everything in the universe is governed by causal laws; that is, everything in the universe is entirely determined so that whatever happens at any given moment is the effect of some antecedent cause (Pojman 327). This position of causation as the explanation for all actions is termed Hard Determinism. It contends that there are no other explanations for human actions except that it is as a result of antecedent causes. Although, our ability to deliberate – argument for Libertarian – seems obvious that we are free, the determinist argues that we often feel free, but these feelings are illusory and that the deliberation is the product of antecedent cause.
I go with soft determinism there is not the rigid linear necessary cause and effect one on one relationship predetermined outcomes of the chain of outcomes. I prefer the version of limited potential free will similar to compatibilism.