all you need to do is look at expressly atheist societies and see how degenerate they are.
Really? Humanist have led the world forward for the last several centuries, while the religions have contributed nothing of value while confusing and misdirecting people. Humanism gave the world science and the modern liberal democratic state with guaranteed rights and progressive reforms that transformed people from uneducated subjects mostly living in filth and squalor to autonomous citizens with economic and social opportunities not depending on birthrights or the fortunes of ancestors. Science made their lives longer, more functional, safer, more comfortable, easier, and more interesting. Why? Reason replaced faith in these matters, and the Enlightenment was born.
All the while, the religions are STILL teaching that faith is a virtue and cognitive dissonance about religious dogma is a demon trying to steal their souls. Their still promoting ancient, irrational, divisive, and destructive prejudices about unbelievers and gay people, and what constitutes truth, morality, or spirituality. You can turn to the humanists for instruction on those. Spoiler: truth doesn't come from guessing, morality doesn't come from a book, and spirituality has nothing to do with spirits.
nominally religious societies are also degenerate but that is not because of religion but despite it.
Is there any more degenerate a demographic in America than its white evangelicals? They're made that way by their religion. Who else is telling them to force unwanted births and that LGTBQ+ deserve their contempt and oppression? Nobody except hateful, ignorant people speaking for Jesus.
there is no such thing as an atheist, whatever is your priority in life, who are whatever you think is the most powerful entity on earth, whatever you get up in the morning for is your "god"
I'll leave gods to the faithful. Worship is beneath human dignity.
even if it is not much of a god and you have nothing in particular to live for.
That describes Christianity, it's indolent god, and its adherents that can't wait to die and move on to something better. I don't know as much about your religion, but I doubt that it's much different.
How many have told us that without the hope of an afterlife, life has no meaning and there is no reason to behave morally. What does this tell us about the meaning in their lives to them, and what motivates their behavior? Life is a staging room for them for getting to heaven and has no inherent value if they don't hope for and then get pie in the sky, and they're playing a part until then imitating what they think good behavior looks like when being watched, which usually turns out to be politeness, a lot of smiling, several 'Jesus loves you,' and glad handing - just like at church or, when the Witnesses come a-knockin'. Are these lives well lived? No.
The heavy lifting is being done by humanists and those who share their values who might not call themselves such as the pagans, Dharmics, and even some liberal Abrahamics whose thesim seems to have no adverse effect on them. They can still reason and refuse to be homophobic.
Canadian doctors encouraged to bring up medically assisted death before their patients do
You seem to consider that unethical. Your religious values are not those of humanists. I support having this option. I want it for myself and everybody else that wants it for themselves, and don't really care what theists have been taught about euthanasia or physician assisted suicide. Their beliefs are given to them, and they imbibe them uncritically. That anybody would deprive them of that option based in irrational beliefs is what I consider immoral.
the developed world is disintegrating and the world is circling the drain
Another religious trope. Another idea fed to the faithful and accepted uncritically. The world is better off than it has ever been. More people than ever are educated, own homes, and are living long, comfortable, satisfying lives.
I've recently told this story here a few times about the Witnesses who last came to my door. They opened with that assumption and were stymied when I disagreed. They actually left me despite being polite to them and being willing to talk with them. They say that dog bites man is not news but man bites dog is. Well, JWs slamming the door is a potential customer's face is news.
And I can never forget the JW seen on RF frequently until about a year or two ago, who became angry at me for this attitude. How can I say that I'm happy or be happy with so much suffering in the world. She called it selfish. Oh well, that's her cross to bear living under such a cloud of nihilism and the price she must pay for not using her own senses and mind to see how many happy people there are in the world.
compassion, sympathy and the desire to see others be happy discourages immoral behavior
Yes, and religion doesn't do as good a job of promoting those as humanism. Who is showing those things to LGBTQ+ and the immigrants at the border? Certainly not the Christian governors of Texas or Florida. Who stands for women's rights in America? The Christians want to make them incubators. Sorry, but the myth of religious goodness is just that. Where was the church during the pandemic when the humanist governments were promoting science, distributing vaccines, and saving businesses? Where is it for anything important? Nowhere to be found, just counting tithes and spouting empty platitudes like the pope.
If you want to demean atheism, perhaps you should have your ducks in a row first lest someone come along and embarrass you and you church. It needn't be an atheist, either. There are liberal, educated Christians here that could make this same argument, albeit in a different voice. How many Christians also reject the homophobia and nihilism of Christianity, who accept the science and respect reason and empiricism, who refuse to hate atheists or call them degenerate, who support choice for women, who support church-state separation just like any atheistic humanist?