Take #2:
The question is if that experince is about sometihng internal or external. Or if that which you know, is subjective or objective. Unless you can show it to be external and objective, I will go with this explanation of gender identity:
Kønsidentitet er det enkelte individs indre følelse og oplevelse af sit køn.
Google: Gender identity is the individual's inner feeling and experience of their gender.
For nogle mennesker vil kønsidentitet være forskellig fra det fødselstildelte køn.
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