I'm sorry I lost my temper with you, Meow Mix. But you do come off as a know-it-all and that annoys me. Why even participate with other RFers when you already have the answers to your own questions?
It's ok, I lose my temper too. As long as on your end you consider me your pal, I don't care. Friends lose their tempers with one another from time to time.
I don't mean to come off as a know-it-all. I do happen to know a lot about certain issues though. That doesn't mean I'm infallible or that I even believe I'm infallible. I'm open to being wrong.
I just don't give up a position until it's rational to give it up. Just because someone offers an objection doesn't mean that objection works or defeats the position in question.
Haven't you seen the many times on RF where I've said directly to the person I'm discussing with, "I'm sorry, you're right and I was wrong?" I'm not like that. I'm not an incorrigible person to speak with. I will admit when I'm wrong. But I'd better actually be wrong before I admit it. What's wrong with that?
I know that these issues I'm talking about are personal, so it can seem like an attack. I know that I've been in discussions with one of my female Muslim friends for a bit now where I "felt" like her opinions attacked me. But I just have to remind myself that she's not attacking me, because she's not. I love her as a good friend -- she knows who she is -- and just because we disagree doesn't change that. Just because I can't change her mind doesn't mean that she's a "know-it-all." It just means that she esteems her position to be a good one, which my objections in her mind haven't hurt. That's natural, and even rational.
Through all this stuff we just need to remember that we're human beings and could even be neighbors. You might be theist, and I might be atheist, but if we were neighbors don't you think we'd have a grand time just smoking some brisket together and talking about how nice a day it is? That's what we need to remember. We're all human. We're all really "neighbors" even if we're not. Like any neighbor or friend we'll lose our temper or get emotional once in a while, but as long as we can laugh about it later, that's fine! Right?