Hmm... I doubt it. That wouldn`t leave any room for hope at all.
Like I said, this isn't something I condone enforcing, nor do I have any misguided hope that it would ever happen voluntarily, as that would be a little too 1984ish for my taste, but I feel that the talk about it and societal opinions on an afterlife end up causing some degree of stress.
Well, I disagree. I do think that this idea causes stress at one point or another, and probably becomes a lot more real closer to death. Granted, this would probably happen to me as well if I knew I was going to die in a week. But its a matter of degree. I think its likely that there is more after this life, so I have a good deal of hope. I wish I knew that there is an afterlife, because then I would have no use for hope. Thats all I have, unfortunately. But its still a lot better than having no hope at all, having instead a belief that the last breath I take will be the permanent end of me.
From personal experience, I can tell you that when I was a hard atheist the belief in permanent death did cause me stress. So, Im not only going on speculation here, I believed it myself.
And when I say that those with faith deal with the stress too, that comes from my experience. I seem to be ther reverse of you. I went from living a life of "faith" and I dealt with a lot more stress over wether there is an afterlife or not back then than I do now.
Likewise, I was unfortunate enough to fall prey to the concept of hell as well. I find Christianity repulsive.
I wouldn't go so far as to say that CHRISTIANITY is repulsive. Many
Christians may be repulsive due to a bastardization of the religion, but the religion itself has many good parts. The problem is that it is an easy to bastardize religion and there are many aspects to it that are just plain wrong.
We don't need hope in an afterlife. But I do think its better to have hope. Personally, I like life. Overall its good. It would be nice to live again in an afterlife of one kind or another, apart from any really terrible afterlife. It gives a person a more positive outlook.
Like I was saying, I had a much less positive outlook prior to my change in faith. So the main point that I'm trying to make is that it can go both ways. I believe that religion and the belief in an afterlife can do good and be good for many people, but there are many people out there that it does harm for just as it did for me.
You have hope in wanting to make this world a better place and having children, so clearly these things are positives for you and make life better. But, you think we will only enjoy them once. Whereas I think its likely that there is more life coming up that we will get to enjoy, probably for the rest of eternity. I would like to ask you, 'why have you abandoned hope in another life that could offer you these things?'. But, I won't, because I suspect you've reached your belief for reasons Im already familiar with. But I will ask you to reexamine your reasons, because personally I think they offer as much foundation for that belief as sand offers a foundation for a house.
As is the common answer, I don't believe in an afterlife because I've seen no evidence leading me to believe there is one. I see no reason for believing in an afterlife other than to sastisfy some uncomfortableness inside of me. This is good enough for some people.
I think you were focusing too much on it before. I mean, I don`t see how having some hope in an afterlife would be worse than not having any hope at all. Whether we have hope or not, that doesn`t mean we have to think about it. I don`t really think about it much myself. I don`t see how I would be better off without any hope at all as you say you are.
I find it better off because I'm no longer conflicted internally by the lack of evidence. When I "believed" I didn't truly believe and this caused me great stress. I was being told that to have faith was good and that those who believe without seeing are greater than those who know. I found all this to be rubbish and struggled for a long time with the idea of an afterlife and a God in general. I found great peace in accepting no afterlife and no God, and a lot more beauty in the world.
It sounds like your leaving room for the possibility here lol
I acknowledge that I cannot know with any certainty unless there's a way to go to the afterlife and then come back, or some form of evidence that this world was altered by an afterlife. The problem is there isn't any evidence of this. To steal a cliche, I also concede that there's no way of knowing that there's no flying spaghetti monster floating around in space out there. This doesn't mean that I have equal cause to believe there is one as to believe there isn't. However, that last line was meant more as a joke than a concession
-Benhamine