First off I'd like to note that I don't think that the idea of "some degree of stress" related to a finite life is exclusive to those who don't believe in an afterlife. I think that this concept can and does haunt those that believe just as much as the "non-believers". The reasoning is that we simply don't know.
Thats a fair point. I do think your right, and to some degree it applies to me too.
Even though some people claim to be as sure in their faith as they are, they have their doubts as well. Sigh. Thinking about faith makes me pity some of the people that have it. Not all people of faith, but many have the kind of faith that I suspect causes them a great deal of stress. The kind of faith that is riddled with doubt but reinforced with sheer determination.
If we all accepted that this is all we get and didn't bother hypothesizing about alternate scenarios (not that I'm condoning this, just positing a theory) we would be much more comfortable with the idea overall.
Hmm... I doubt it. That wouldn`t leave any room for hope at all.
Now I don't think that this attitude means that someone with a view of no afterlife somehow stresses over this concept more than someone who believes in an afterlife simply because the thoughts are floating around. I feel just as one accepts that when they die there's more, we believe when we die there is no more.
Does this have to cause suffering? Do you think most vegetarians have stress over the idea of never having meat again? The one's I have met don't, and I'd suggest that the ones who do probably are influenced heavily over the culture and acceptance of eating meat. So I think there's sort of a need for acceptance on both sides. If you believe in an afterlife then you have to accept that for the idea of "noafterlife" to not cause you stress, and I feel the same rings true for the opposite.
Well, I disagree. I do think that this idea causes stress at one point or another, and probably becomes a lot more real closer to death. Granted, this would probably happen to me as well if I knew I was going to die in a week. But its a matter of degree. I think its likely that there is more after this life, so I have a good deal of hope. I wish I
knew that there is an afterlife, because then I would have no use for hope. Thats all I have, unfortunately. But its still a lot better than having no hope at all, having instead a belief that the last breath I take will be the permanent end of me.
From personal experience, I can tell you that when I was a hard atheist the belief in permanent death did cause me stress. So, Im not only going on speculation here, I believed it myself.
I am one who was raised in a Christian family and thus was taught very young that if I was a good little boy I'd get into heaven and otherwise...I'd go to H-E-Double Hockey Sticks (we were so afraid of this place we weren't allowed to even say the word "Hell"). Now looking back on my "previous life," I see that not only did the view of an afterlife (at least through these terms) cause me a great deal of stress, but my difficulty with the comprehension of this view and the conflicting thought that, "There may be NO HEAVEN AT ALL!" always popping up in my head, caused a great deal more stress in my life than after I accepted that "This is all we get, so enjoy it."
Likewise, I was unfortunate enough to fall prey to the concept of hell as well. I find Christianity repulsive.
As for the absence of hope, I must ask, "Why do we need hope in an afterlife?" I'm content with the thought that this is all I have. Is it bad for some stuff to be hopeless? I don't hope that there are unicorns out there...do you pity me for that (extreme example I know, but bare with me)? I think we choose where we want to place our hope. I hope that I can make the world, however minutely, a better place than it would be had I not been born. I hope that some day I will experience the joy of being a father. However, I don't hope that there's an afterlife, but if there is, I'll do my best to enjoy that, in whatever form it is.
We don't
need hope in an afterlife. But I do think its better to have hope. Personally, I like life. Overall its good. It would be nice to live again in an afterlife of one kind or another, apart from any really terrible afterlife. It gives a person a more positive outlook.
You have hope in wanting to make this world a better place and having children, so clearly these things are positives for you and make life better. But, you think we will only enjoy them once. Whereas I think its likely that there is more life coming up that we will get to enjoy, probably for the rest of eternity. I would like to ask you, 'why have you abandoned hope in another life that could offer you these things?'. But, I won't, because I suspect you've reached your belief for reasons Im already familiar with. But I will ask you to reexamine your reasons, because personally I think they offer as much foundation for that belief as sand offers a foundation for a house.
You talked about "the weight of impending and permanent doom can and does cause some degree of stress." While I'll agree that it has caused stress in my life, it has caused EXPONENTIALLY less stress since I've come to accept that there is no afterlife. It allowed me to stop focusing on what's next and enjoy now. And yes when these thoughts arise, my viewpoint I discussed earlier comforts me.
I think you were focusing too much on it before. I mean, I don`t see how having some hope in an afterlife would be worse than not having any hope at all. Whether we have hope or not, that doesn`t mean we have to think about it. I don`t really think about it much myself. I don`t see how I would be better off without any hope at all as you say you are.
Honestly, I don't see the point in constantly thinking about whether there is an afterlife or not.
Thats good. Likewise, I would be worried for someone who constantly thought about it lol.
and at the end of the day, if my time is here,
I'll either enjoy the next life, or I won't
It sounds like your leaving room for the possibility here lol