Without the more full context, many things in scripture (when typically quoted in isolation) can
seem less fair than they actually are when we hear more of the full context.
For instance, how could it ever be fair that some wouldn't be helped at all to achieve faith?
Well, it only could make sense with more context. Such as this for example (this isn't all, but is some) --
6 For though the LORD is high, he regards the lowly,
but the haughty he knows from afar.
34 Toward the scorners he is scornful,
but to the humble he gives favor.
23 One’s pride
[arrogance] will bring him low,
but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor.
12 Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.
52 he has brought down the mighty from their thrones
and exalted those of humble estate;
6 But he gives more grace. Therefore it says,
“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
Psalm 138:6; Proverbs 3:34; Proverbs 29:23; Matthew 23:12; Luke 1:52; James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5
So, here we get a really key piece of context (from throughout many places in the old and new testaments (this was only a partial listing).
God resists the proud (arrogant).
Why? I think in part for much the same reason people everywhere find arrogant people almost impossible to work with, live with, be with: it's just not a good way to be. It's not what you'd want around in an eternal life for instance. A proud [arrogant] person tends to discount (ignore) the contributions of others around them. They tend to overvalue their own wisdom or virtues, and so on. They provoke rightful anger against their unjust attitude.
So, if God doesn't help an arrogant or scornful person make it, we can be grateful.
But we know He is quick to show mercy and forgiveness to anyone that turns to Him in humble repentance!