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Okay, Kathryn, you say that the person's name ought to be removed from the RCC's membership list if the person states that s/he no longer wishes to be considered a member.
The problem is that there's no separation between baptismal records and list of members. The baptismal records ARE the RCC's membership list. They are one and the same.
But that part is only true in the people´s mind, not on paper. In people´s mind being baptized means you belong, no mattter what you do next. So you want to feel this is not "official" by scratching the paper as if that would scratch the fact so you can feel better about it.
The church may want to grant that... or not. And quite hoenstly, is for them to choose. Is THEIR records, and THE RECORDS only say that the baptism occur, and even point out that you "left" the faith. Is as reasonable as it gets while olding the belief they hold and have the right to hold.