dust1n
Zindīq
I'm guessing the first language isn't English in some of the responses you are getting don't seem to be making sense.
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Friends with ''Benefits''
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I'm guessing the first language isn't English in some of the responses you are getting don't seem to be making sense.
McBell
Unbound
Yes it is doable.
Yes it CAN be done realistically.
I do not believe it to be immoral in and of itself, but it can be immoral.
McBell
Unbound
I suspect they are being a trolling douche bag.
Hopefully because they are bored.
dust1n
Zindīq
It could be the case... it does seem to be some sort of attempt at irony towards how slutty we all are, or something. But some of the posts are totally lost on me.
Mequa
Neo-Epicurean
My thoughts exactly. It can be immoral when there is a power imbalance and one person ends up having their emotions exploited following a hit of oxytocin, if the other person is predatory enough to enjoy and exploit the attention and sex derived from the other person's unrequited romantic feelings.
mainliner
no one can de-borg my fact's ...NO-ONE!!
wrong my friend
McBell
Unbound
It may be a theoretical for you, but I was a FWB before my marriage.
The thing is, the benefits part was not what it was about.
In fact, we only had sex eight or nine times in the six years the with benefits was going on.
We are still good friends even after thirteen years of marriage to my wife.
mainliner
no one can de-borg my fact's ...NO-ONE!!
Its fun to have discussion about this , but most people are way way WAY overthinking it.
its just sex with a friend , nothing complicated about having fun is there.
over thinking ruins fun
i know loads of people who.have been doing it for many years with no problems.... ..... Its gives you a great sense of freedom .
iv done it a few times ....... Its just normal and very mature .
i wonder how many swingers are on this site......... I shall go and search.lol
its just sex with a friend , nothing complicated about having fun is there.
over thinking ruins fun
i know loads of people who.have been doing it for many years with no problems.... ..... Its gives you a great sense of freedom .
iv done it a few times ....... Its just normal and very mature .
i wonder how many swingers are on this site.
........ I shall go and search.lol
McBell
Unbound
You have presented much to indicate that I am correct and nothing to indicate I am wrong.wrong my friend
However, the ball is in your court.
mainliner
no one can de-borg my fact's ...NO-ONE!!
no a trollng douch bagwrong that you're bored?
just kdding!
mainliner
no one can de-borg my fact's ...NO-ONE!!
i wasn't talking to you buddy
This is very interesting, because it's probably common (I've assumed so to a degree) that a FWB type thing would be all about the sex, and here you say it wasn't. Very cool that you remained friends after the FWB thing ended.
McBell
Unbound
I suspect that is the problem.This is very interesting, because it's probably common (I've assumed so to a degree) that a FWB type thing would be all about the sex, and here you say it wasn't. Very cool that you remained friends after the FWB thing ended.
Far to many people concentrate on the benefits and let the friends part go to ****.
So then it becomes about the benefits and not the friend.
I have never seen a relationship based solely on sex last.
mainliner
no one can de-borg my fact's ...NO-ONE!!
its easy to.stay friends with someone you have sex with......in fact its easier
its easy to.stay friends with someone you have sex with......in fact its easier
with ex bf's...I've remained friends with a few. but we were friends beforehand, so ...
but there were feelings there, it wasn't a FWB thing.
but then there are some ex bf's I never wish to hear from again!
Mequa
Neo-Epicurean
Yes, if you are good friends beforehand, things stand more of a chance working out, particularly after the "benefits" thing is over.