More from Driscoll:
"During the sermon, which was entitled Sex, a Study of the Good Bits from Song of Solomon, Driscoll interpreted Song of Solomon 2:3 as referring to oral sex and then said, Men, I am glad to report to you that oral sex is biblical
The wife performing oral sex on the husband is biblical. Gods men said, Amen. Ladies, your husbands appreciate oral sex. They do. So, serve them, love them well. Its biblical. Right here. We have a verse. The fruit of her husband is sweet to her taste and she delights to be beneath him.'
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"[In recounting the story about the man who started coming to Driscolls church because his wife began performing oral sex:]
She [the wife] says, Ive never performed oral sex on my husband. Ive refused to. I said, You need to go home and tell your husband that youve met Jesus and youve been studying the Bible, and that youre convicted of a terrible sin in your life. And then you need to drop his trousers, and you need to serve your husband. And when he asks why, say, Because Im a repentant woman. God has changed my heart and Im supposed to be a biblical wife.' She says, Really? I said, Yeah. First Peter 3 says if your husband is an unbeliever to serve him with deeds of kindness. [Laughter from audience] How many men would agree, that is a deed of kindness. He doesnt want tracts. Those wont do anything. What were talking about here could really help."
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"It is not uncommon to meet pastors wives who really let themselves go; they sometimes feel that because their husband is a pastor, he is therefore trapped into fidelity, which gives them cause for laziness. A wife who lets herself go and is not sexually available to her husband in the ways that the Song of Songs is so frank about is not responsible for her husbands sin, but she may not be helping him either."
» Mark Driscoll Slammed by Baptist Press over Sex Teaching Bartholomews Notes on Religion
"In Mars Hill theology, female members are viewed through the lens of
complementarianism, a theological position that prescribes separate roles for women and men including
male headship. A woman being advised to get down on her knees and give her husband a blow job represents just one of a spectrum of submissive behaviors touted for females, who are encouraged to find their meaning in the traditional roles of wife and mother. The virginity of women is prized, and
by some reports Driscolls late discovery and fury that his wife had sex with another male as a teenager became
bizarrely significant in their relationship and in the life of the church even though he himself was
not a virgin when he married."
Christian right mega-church minister faces mega-mutiny for alleged abusive behavior - Salon.com
So a "good Christian wife" is basically supposed to be a submissive sexual servant that is always available for her husband's "needs". Notice he doesn't cherry pick and twist Bible verses to find a command for husbands to give oral to their wives. Oh, I wonder why that is.
He also blames wives for their husband's cheating.
