Not according to her. This would be personal perception. She said one of the most vile things she heard was people trying to console her by telling her the baby was in a "better place". Do you have kids? I do, and I cannot think of any better place for my daughter than in my arms.
Again, I'm glad you get comfort from your religion. There are many who do not.
Then if she does not find comfort in God then perhaps she should not believe in him then? no i don't have kids. but i sure as hell been through more then my share of heartache. At the age of 33 i have been through hell and made it through. even before my birth when my mom was pregnant with me Satan try to kill me. My mom was married to my dad and left him when she was pregnant with me. He was a drinker and would abuse her. One night the holy spirit told my mom to get my sister who was five and herself out of there and go to the gas station down the street. my mom was about six months long with me at the time and she did what she heard God tell her to do. Cause she listen to God i am alive today. Jack (my dad) came home drunk. He was looking for my mom but could not find her and instead ended up almost killing their dog.
I did not met him until i was 14 years old and he died when i was 18. Cause he abuse my mom i had to deal with many health issues and handicaps. I was in the MR classes in school and was often picked on cause of it. I grew up poor. My mom raised my sister and me on her own with out a husband. She raised us with Christ was our father. we might not of gone to church all the time but we had God living in the house with us. She raised us to love Christ and love people.
I have had to battle with deppression and anxienty so bad that i came close to killing myself in hs. it was not until my friend holly came into my life my senior year in 2000 that i gave my life to the Lord for my own self and i begin to change.
I met my wife in 2011. We got married a year later. One month after we got married my wife who has bi polar hand an attack and got put in the hospital. we we're just married one month and i felt defeated cause i could not protect my wife. It was during one day at work that God showed up and change me for the better. I worked for 13 years in a retail store. i was the head bag boy. I was cleaning up a mess when i found out that my wife was not doing good and was court order to be in the hospital. I fell to my knees and i remember crying out to God. right then on the raido at my old job casting crowns song courages came on the radio. I felt the holy spirit picking me up and telling me i needed to let God have it. I did what i felt God tell me to do. For three days i fasted my lunch cause God told me to. Just less then a week later my wife did a full recovering and got to come home sooner then they imagine she would.
We have had other battles we have had to deal with inculding the death of my four month old great niece, my mom having mini strokes and having to move in with us for two years and me leaving my job cause i got fibromlygia real bad.
But i have not let go of God. For me he is the only reason why i am still living.
