A repeat of anecdote is not statistics, nor is it an experiment. Might want to retake remedial Science.
Also I was using it as an example of how unreliable anecdotal evidence actually is. But if you insist. Happily I already used Easter as an excuse to gather this so called data. Mostly for a laugh.(For privacy purposes, I will obviously not be using real names.)
Mr X. Age 66. Response. My family has always been tight knit. I have fond memories of my parents continuously supporting me throughout my life. It was very uncomfortable to come out to them, but after a few ups and downs, I am happy to report that they can finally attend my marriage to my partner of 40 years. (Note, legalized SSM is a relatively new thing where I live. So people are still kind of responding to it.) Can't say I've ever faced any abuse in my life. Unless you count homophobic bullying as abuse. But really a bit of schoolyard shenanigans. Sort of disheartening to hear that is still being touted in today's day and age. I expect that from my generation, because we didn't know any better. Sad that hate and lies still persist.
Mr B. Age 45. Response: Aww, (my real name) you've known us since you were, what, 5? Have you ever gotten even the mere notion of abuse? I mean I know dad is a bit of a grumpy pants and is a smelly old fart. But he's harmless, aren't you Daddy? *sarcastically pats father on the head who in turn grins at him*
Besides love has won *grins*. (Referencing the aforementioned legalization of SSM through popular vote.)
Mr M. Age 33. Response: *Laughs continuously for at least 5 minutes.*
Hey dad, apparently you and mum abused me and that caused me to be FABULOUS!
Mr M's Dad. *Laughing* Ha see, love (his wife) I told you this was all our fault.
Mrs M. *rolls eyes hard af*
Mr M. Hey (brother's name) did you know that apparently I'm gay because I was from an abusive home?
Mr M's brother: *laughing* Oh yeah, it's all their fault
*points dramatically at parents* J'accuse! Thou foul malignant blights upon our family. Oh woe betide us. Hey since I'm not gay, does that mean you only abused (brother's name here)? I told you (brother's name) I was the favourite. Clearly they should have stopped at me, after all, can you do better than perfection? *pretends to pose dramatically like a fashion model*
We all laugh.
Mr M: Nuh uh. Clearly their time was spent with me thank you very much. I'm the most loved.
Meanwhile I look to refill my alcoholic beverage very quickly. Teachers be lame. Nah they're probs my favourite cousins, really. Our visits are often both educational and twisted.
Also fun fact at least one of these families is Christian. Guess which one.