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Homosexuality and religious.

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
Most people are married and choose to have children so there is no danger that the population will not be maintained.
So you reject the argument that homosexuality is wrong because they cannot produce children.

All of humanity is to be considered our family, that is what universal brotherhood is all about.
Apart from homosexuals, of course. You would rather that there were no homosexuals (that's what "purged from the world" means.)

“When asked on one occasion: “What is a Bahá’í?” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá replied: “To be a Bahá’í simply means to love all the world; to love humanity and try to serve it; to work for universal peace and universal brotherhood.
Well that's clearly not true. There are millions of people with those values who are not Bahais. And you can't claim to love all humanity and want universal brotherhood when you call hundreds of millions of people's lives a evil, shameful aberration, against nature, to be purged from the world, etc

On another occasion He defined a Bahá’í as “one endowed with all the perfections of man in activity.”
Classic Bahaullah platitude.

In one of His London talks He said that a man may be a Bahá’í even if He has never heard the name of Bahá’u’lláh.”
:tearsofjoy:
No.
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
@ CG Didymus

This was raised by Baha'u'llah in the Kitab-i-iqan, a story about Muhammad and how men change the Word of God.

".. Among them is the story of Ibn-i-Ṣúríyá. When the people of Khaybar asked the focal center of the Muḥammadan Revelation concerning the penalty of adultery committed between a married man and a married woman, Muḥammad answered and said: “The law of God is death by stoning.” Whereupon they protested saying: “No such law hath been revealed in the Pentateuch.” Muḥammad answered and said: “Whom do ye regard among your rabbis as being a recognized authority and having a sure knowledge of the truth?” They agreed upon Ibn-i-Súríyá. Thereupon Muḥammad summoned him and said: “I adjure thee by God Who clove the sea for you, caused manna to descend upon you, and the cloud to overshadow you, Who delivered you from Pharaoh and his people, and exalted you above all human beings, to tell us what Moses hath decreed concerning adultery between a married man and a married woman.” He made reply: “O Muḥammad! death by stoning is the law.” Muḥammad observed: “Why is it then that this law is annulled and hath ceased to operate among the Jews?” He answered and said: “When Nebuchadnezzar delivered Jerusalem to the flames, and put the Jews to death, only a few survived. The divines of that age, considering the extremely limited number of the Jews, and the multitude of the Amalekites, took counsel together, and came to the conclusion that were they to enforce the law of the Pentateuch, every survivor who hath been delivered from the hand of Nebuchadnezzar would have to be put to death according to the verdict of the Book. Owing to such considerations, they totally repealed the penalty of death.” Meanwhile Gabriel inspired Muḥammad’s illumined heart with these words: “They pervert the text of the Word of God..."

Regards Tony
So you believe that stoning to death is an appropriate punishment for adultery, given that you believe Muhammad was an actual messenger of god?
 

It Aint Necessarily So

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Well wouldn’t you say that there are things that could be “good for our tribe” but morally wrong? With “good for our tribe” I mean that the tribe is more likely to flourish and less likely to go extinct…….

Yes. It depends on how one frames "our tribe." If our tribe is the tree of life, then nothing done in furtherance of that tribe, life, can be called immoral. Likewise, if the tribe is the family of man, although certain offenses against the beasts in furtherance of human interests might be deemed immoral, such as eating animals, or how they're raised and slaughtered. If the tribe is one's country, one can commit moral offenses against neighboring countries as Russia has done recently.

But let's not get too far astray here. If I recall correctly, your thesis was that morality could not arise naturalistically from amoral matter. I don't want to get lost in the bushes discussing what we each consider moral or immoral.

But we do have evidence that:
1 Jesus was alive at some point in time (X)
2 Jesus died at some Point in time(Y)
3 Jesus was alive at some Point time (Z)
4 Y predates Z

With evidence I mean that we have multiple independent sources corroborating each if the 4 points , this type of evidence is enough to grant any fact form ancient history, if you want to make an arbitrary exception with the resurrection go ahead, but why should I?

We've had this discussion at length in the past, when I told you that the evidence believers (including you) offer for biblical resurrection is not sufficient to justify belief. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. All believers have are words, just like with the flood story. I reject that you or anybody else have established that Jesus was dead at some point Y and alive at some point Z several days later. Why are we returning to that? Isn't this discussion about the possibility of the naturalistic evolution of a moral faculty in man from premoral life forms?

In the end children have to be part of our lives, we were one and our experiences can teach others, I see why some choose not to, it is a great responsibility and challenge, it requires one to give of much time.

Children have to be part of our lives? And the reason includes that we used to be children? You seem to believe that devoting resources toward childrearing is a virtue even if one has none. He should get some and raise them, right? If that's not your view, why are defining those who choose other paths as selfish? Doesn't that imply a duty being shirked?

I admire those who have no children for their contribution to population control. I see no virtue in families having children and raising them to satisfy familial expectations if that's not what they want to be doing. If you somehow wound up with children whether you planned and wanted it or not - perhaps stepchildren - then it is virtuous to rise to that challenge and meet the responsibility as a good parent does. But if one prefers a childless home and won't marry the mother because of her children, some would call that selfish - probably you - that judgment implies a duty to help raise those children.

It's unfortunate that you see this life choice as selfish. There are other ways to give to society than generating more children, better ways in my estimation if others are going to be generating the next generation of citizens.

1. The Baha’i Faith Condemns homosexuality as immoral 2. The Baha’i Faith condemns all forms of discrimination, mistreatment and prejudice against homosexuals and Baha’is are encouraged to protect homosexuals from hurt and harm.

People only read about the first point then condemn us but the first point is only a belief, point 2 is how we actually act on that belief which is that we are to be kind and loving. Please don’t just read point one and accuse us of homophobia,

OK. I read both points. The first one is homophobic, the second not. If you believe number 1, then you've become homophobic at your religion's direction. It's really that simple. I'm an atheist, and as such, am very familiar with the idea held by many theists that atheists are morally defective or intellectually dishonest. They rarely use such language, instead indicating that they just want us to find our ways into theism to save our souls. They would deny that these opinions about atheists needing to be rescued by them are bigotry or destructive, but they'd be wrong, and their objections would fall on deaf ears. As has already been pointed out in this thread, it's not their call. Others make that judgments based on the beliefs that are either embraced or not repudiated.

I recall a professional acquaintance with whom I had dinner one night with our wives about twenty years ago. They were conservative Christians, and we were not. I asked him if he thought that Iwas going to hell, and he did everything in his power to avoid answering. What am I to conclude? They didn't overtly hate atheists, since they were socializing with us and never pushed religion on us or tried to get to come to Jesus, but they both obviously believed that we would be sent for eternal punishment by a perfectly just and loving god for being atheists.

That's not OK with me, and I condemn the religion that taught them that. And if I were gay and had that same dinner with a Baha'i - perhaps you - and asked analogous questions, and you sputtered like they did refusing to repudiate the doctrine while reassuring me that you felt no malice, it would put a wall between us. I would know that you would much prefer it if I were straight. How do you think a gay person ought to understand that?

I want to say the same thing as I have said twice already: the alert Baha'i will stop arguing with others about whether he is homophobic based in an absence of overt malice in his heart, because it's not a debate. The Baha'i have no say in how others judge their scripture, for example, or them for condoning it. And those Baha'i are not the target. I find you all basically well-meaning. It's the religion that puts you all in so unnatural a position, and though you seem committed to not behaving unjustly to gays, which is to your credit, I can't help but believe that all of you who fail to explicitly repudiate the doctrine, which is all of you so far, don't also harbor the idea that there is something wrong with homosexuals. Antitheists would like to see the religions of the world that teach this toxic doctrine to be minimized and teach them to fewer people. They prefer that you had never read them and believed that they come from a good god, nor any of the other eight million people reading that stuff.
 

It Aint Necessarily So

Veteran Member
Premium Member
I believe that the main reason for prohibition of homosexual sex is that it spirituality harmful to those engaged in this practice, as is adultery, and for us adultery is any sex outside of marriage.

The evidence is to the contrary. Where homosexuality is tolerated, homosexuals are as happy (or as unhappy) as heterosexuals. Where homosexuals are spiritually harmed is when in the presence of homophobes. Incidentally, for me, the word adultery means extramarital sex while married, and sex outside of marriage is fornication.

The scriptures themselves are not homophobic

Not to the believers. But as you have seen, they are considered that to the rest. You can choose to fight that or to recognize it and realize that how others understand those words is beyond your control. You seem to think that you are still misunderstood, and that further explanation will show others that you are not homophobic. But your definition of homophobic isn't theirs. Yours is based in the presence or absence of overt hatred in the adherent. Theirs is based in the words in the scripture, and what they teach people who believe that they come from a good god.

He often says about our religion that he is trying to get us think critically, under a false assumption that we don't, or at least I don't think critically.

You made the comment, "the main reason for prohibition of homosexual sex is that it spirituality harmful to those engaged in this practice." That's not critical thinking if it isn't a sound conclusion based in evidence properly understood. All beliefs are either sound conclusions justified by the standards of critical analysis, or they are not.

The latter are unjustified beliefs, or faith. If you do the latter, you have left the critical thought reservation. It's an acquired skill seen only in those who have been trained in it, which usually means a university education.

A religious education will draw one away from it. Religion depends on belief by faith. It gives lip service to reason, but wherever reason and doctrine come into conflict, faith prevails, as we have seen in this thread, where many Baha'i have expressed the unreasonableness of homophobia, but still accept homophobic doctrine however unreasonable. It's just how religion works, and one might consider that critical thinking, but it's not.

Can't you respect our opinion

I think you mean, won't others agree with your opinion, or at the least, stop disagreeing with it openly. You are being treated respectfully, but not some of your beliefs, and not the religion that teaches them.

Whether you have or not can't you respect that I have a different opinion, and not try to force your opinion on me

I have neither the desire nor the ability to force opinions on you, but I do have the desire to explain to whomever can read my words why some of them are harmful.

I'm starting to sense a strain of nonconfrontation in Baha'i that goes beyond humility or politeness to meekness, which despite claims to the contrary, is neither a blessing nor a virtue. One can become too passive such that he fails to take moral stands that he ought to just to avoid disagreement, which he seems to find painful. I worry about this when I read people writing about tamping down their egos, as if an ego were the enemy.

That can be true if the ego is vain or selfish, or its desires distracting, but absent such problems, a strong, healthy ego is a virtue. It underlies self-confidence and empowers people to right wrongs. Too little ego, and one ends up with a poverty of spirit - failure to take a stand he ought to. Isn't that what you want - 'Please, back off, don't disagree with me, and don't ask me to take a stand contradictory to my scriptures, because it's too unpleasant for me.'

You're asking that of others with a different disposition and values, people who feel that they have a duty to confront these ideas.
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
While Bahá’ís hold specific beliefs abouthuman identity, sexuality, personal morality, and individual and social transformation, they also believe that individuals must be free to investigate truth and should not be coerced. They are, therefore, enjoined to be tolerant of those whose views differ from their own, not to judge others according to their own standards, and not to attempt to impose these standards on society. To regard a person who has a homosexual orientation with prejudice or disdain is entirely against the spirit of the Faith. And where occasion demands, it would be appropriate to speak out or act against unjust or oppressive measures directed towards homosexuals." (House of Justice)
The problem with this is that it is not possible to separate the homosexuality from the homosexual, any more than you can separate "being Mexican" from "the Mexican". One relies entirely on the other. They are inextricably connected.

All you are saying is "I don't hate black people, I just hate the way they look".
And anyone saying that would rightly be called a racist, don't you agree.
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
Although Baha’is are against war we are not pacifists but believe in justice and collective security to protect the innocent from the oppressor just like any society has a police force to protect citizens from criminals. Same thing except on an international scale so something like an international police force which can arrest and stop crimes committed by dictators and war criminals.
Kinda like the UN, Interpol, the ICC, ICJ, ICHR, etc?
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
Baha’is are told to uphold and defend the victims of oppression including homosexuals.
But you are the ones doing the oppressing!
It's like getting the police to investigate claims of police brutality.
"Oh, we never do that!" :rolleyes:

They are, therefore, enjoined to be tolerant of those whose views differ from their own, not to judge others according to their own standards, and not to attempt to impose these standards on society. To regard a person who has a homosexual orientation with prejudice or disdain is entirely against the spirit of the Faith. And where occasion demands, it would be appropriate to speak out or act against unjust or oppressive measures directed towards homosexuals." (House of Justice)
And yet here you all are, desperately defending the homophobia in Bahai teachings.
:shrug:
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
Interesting from what I read the top person religiously in Russia (Orthodox church there) claims that if men would go to war for Russia their sins would be washed away...and I guess some believe that.
Muhammad said that people who die fighting in Allah's cause get a special place in paradise. It is also stated in the Quran.
Bahais believe that the Quran is the word of god and Muhammad was a genuine messenger, so pick the bones out of that!
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
This post is reportable. We each have differing views. No need to act immaturely by accusing people of bigotry. People need to realise that just because we have differing opinions it doesn’t infer bigotry. That is bullying which I take exception to.
I didn't see him accusing anyone of bigotry. Just describing one of the features common in bigotry.
 

Sheldon

Veteran Member
Interesting that morality is generally not taught in a public school system. I know because I worked for a large school system. Sex education may be taught, how to protect oneself from getting a disease by sexual contact, but not morals. Or abstinence.

Teaching children how to avoid unwanted pregnancies and protect themselves and others from potentially fatal and life altering std's, isn't teaching moral behaviour in your view?

Strongly disagree.

Sex education may be taught, how to protect oneself from getting a disease by sexual contact, but not morals. Or abstinence.

Abstinence training was disastrously immoral, the rates of unwanted pregnancies and std's sky rocketed and was higher than when children were simply told nothing and left to fend for themselves.

It's bizarre to me how religions focus on doctrine as moral, but ignore suffering and the prevention of it.
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
1. The Baha’i Faith Condemns homosexuality as immoral
2. The Baha’i Faith condemns all forms of discrimination, mistreatment and prejudice against homosexuals and Baha’is are encouraged to protect homosexuals from hurt and harm.
Points 1 and 2 are contradictory.
You have to choose one of them. Which one is your position?
 

Sheldon

Veteran Member
I wish people did read everything and not just read what they want into my posts.
An ironic reply given you have ignored my post and the context of the post I was replying to twice now.

Again use the link and carefully read what a theist claimed, then carefully read my response in that context. Your subjective beliefs are utterly irrelevant to that.
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
That’s manipulation for political purposes. If the church were truly religious they would call for an end to the war
I thought you believed the Quran was the actual word of god. It is very keen on war.

because Ukraine was not oppressing anyone.
So war against Bahais is ok because they oppress homosexuals by calling them immoral, unnatural, evil, handicapped, shameful aberration, to be purged from the world, and by requiring them to suppress their true nature and undergo illegal and unscientific conversion therapy?
 

KWED

Scratching head, scratching knee
The Baha’i teachings advocate all disputes being solved at the table. And if that is not possible then referred to an International Tribunal for adjudication. Then a decision. An international police force comprised of all nations can enforce decisions made by the Tribunal just like a court of law can issue an arrest warrant.

Basically, once law and order has been established on an international level, war will no longer be used to solve disputes except in very rare circumstances such as a tyrant or oppressor committing mass genocide. Then only by majority vote will collective security be used to intervene, stop the massacre and arrest or kill the perpetrators. Just like any police action. But force cannot be used without first due process and a Tribunal edict.

A Supreme Tribunal shall be established by the peoples and Governments of every nation, composed of members elected from each country and Government. The members of this Great Council shall assemble in unity. All disputes of an international character shall be submitted to this Court, its work being to arrange by arbitration everything which otherwise would be a cause of war. The mission of this Tribunal would be to prevent war. Abdu’l-Baha, Paris Talks, p. 156.
He was quite the dreamer, that Bahaullah.
 

Sheldon

Veteran Member
Homosexuals are fed up with being mistreated. And as a Baha’i I am glad to protect any person who is being victimised because he is homosexual but that doesn’t mean I have to agree with homosexuality.

Homosexuality is part of who they are, there's nothing to agree or disagree with. Gay people deserve to have the same rights as straight people, anything else is homophobic prejudice obviously.

Like saying you don't have anything against people born with ginger hair, but they're an aberration that goes against nature. It makes no sense, but then religious intolerance isn't rational, it's based on fear and ignorance,and blind adherence to doctrine.
 
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