Politesse
Amor Vincit Omnia
I quite agree! I think we worry far too little about our own descendants.I want to take your quote, @Politesse , and expand on this a bit: we have responsibilities for others in the now, and our descendants in the future, as well as ourselves. It seems like in American culture, regardless of creed, origins, or any other factor, there seems to be little concern about the future generations, and little concern about others beyond the immediate family--if that far out from the self...
It's something I've troubled myself with for most of my life, and I still don't see how to work Those Who Are Not Here and Now, and Those Who Will Come After into my rituals and activities. Certainly those who came before deserve recognition and honor, but somehow I/we also need to recognize and honor those not here, and those who will be later.
I certainly think that cultures with extended family lineages, who live with all generations of their family and expect to continue living in the same place for the next few, tend to be more conscious of the next generation (if one would dare to generalize about something so diverse in actualization). You might enjoy Robin Wall Kimmerer's Braiding Sweetgrass, which is a book on lived "ethnobotany" and which elevates this idea - the importance of indigenous culture-keeping for the benefit of our offspring - to a major theme. It's one of my favorite books of the decade so far.I wonder if many cultures, especially indigenous peoples, manage to do this, or is it really as it seems to me, that almost no one does.