Debate is adversarial, with winners and losers. Notice how you were done, but came back. Humans are competitve and like to test our beliefs and abilities.
We all are expected to be responsible as citizens and in personall lives. The Bible expects believers to be responsible too, just look at all the rules. As we see Jews, Christians, Muslims, Mormonds, etc. all interpret the Bible differently. Heck, even Christians interpret it differently. There's no God coming forth to set all these believers right, so liberal Christians have their rules, moderates theirs, and conservatives their own and think theirs apply to everyone, including Hindus and atheists.
Atheists don't get mired in doctrines, sects, and interpretations. They follow their own moral sense and are accountable for their own moral judgments. No tricky mind games speculating on what a God might want or think is moral. We see plenty of religious folk act with violence against others because they believe their God demands it of them. Look at the Lutherans and Catholics of 1940's Germany who committed the Holocaust. Somehow their Christians beliefs did not inform them that murdering Jews was bad. Nor did the Baptists of the Confederate States understand that black people were fully human and deserving of equality.
What reality don't atheists "see"? Note that reality is something readily avaiable to the senses and reason, and doesn't require special assumptions and interpretations. So please explain your claim. Use facts.
So you believe the 3 year old daughter of one of my clients who was diagnosed with Leukemia, and after painful treatment for nearly 2 years she died a month after her fifth birthday was all planned by God? And meanwhile me as an atheist at 61 and suffer no medical problems at all is also God's plan? Explain the reasons that these plans suggest a moral and competent God. I'm really curious about the whole children dying of cancer and other diseases plans by God, and how these horrors suggest anything decent and good about a God who makes these happen.
So your God isn't a thing? Somehow your God can exist without a cause but energy (which we actually know exists) can't? Explain.