How women should treat men

[Terrywoodenpic]

well...mine is just a sociological and anthropological analysis of the society I live in, compared to the American one.
If you want to prove that my claims are just assumptions, be my guest.

but I need to know where I am wrong.
I think that men want to be treated with sweetness by women.
easy as pie
it's not a difficult concept to get

I understand from your post that you are a preteen, suffering from a juvenile hormone onset.
I have rarely read such a shallow appreciation on womanhood.
The Idea that women should fulfil you preteen concepts of their charms is insulting to them and their intelligence.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

You know...actually by beauty I meant the soul beauty. The beauty of the soul is what make a woman feminine-

Your video showed no evidence of what was in the girl's soul at all.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

I bet that this Italian girl is not your type either.
By the way Elisabetta is the perfect example of woman's femininity. and she makes people understand how Italian women behave and what they look like.

Don't know her. Based on the vid you have posted, she seems fine.
You're not trying to compare her behaviour here to the behaviour of the girl in the first vid, though, surely?

 

[Estro Felino]

Don't know her. Based on the vid you have posted, she seems fine.
You're not trying to compare her behaviour here to the behaviour of the girl in the first vid, though, surely?

of course I am. I can't see any difference

 

[Estro Felino]

I have rarely read such a shallow appreciation on womanhood.
.

give me a definition of femininity\womanhood, then

 

[savagewind]

YOUR definition of beauty is makeup and an easy smile. Do you not know that those women are acting? Not all women know how to act. Not all woman can afford makeup. Some women know that if you act like the woman in the first video it is saying "I want you to have sex with me". Should a woman act like that who doesn't want sex with someone present? Is she being "kind" to all the others around her who she doesn't want to have sex with? What are they suppose to do? She is telling them "I must have some sex". Isn't she?

 

[dust1n]

Stereotypes are everywhere.
I really wanted to spare you this, but...do you really want to know what Italian women think of American women?
They think that most American women are either ugly butches or overweight "females"- and they laugh about them all the time.

You want to know what American women think about Italian women? They don't.

 

[MysticSang'ha]

Stereotypes are everywhere.
I really wanted to spare you this, but...do you really want to know what Italian women think of American women?
They think that most American women are either ugly butches or overweight "females"- and they laugh about them all the time.

I remember that my friend Monica recorded a video, when she went to Rhode Island. She and her friends laughed about all the fat girls of the video for weeks.
so....you see? Italian women are a bit wicked, but that's just because they think that woman's femininity is sacred.

If you are not feminine, you are socially banned

My long time girlfriend back when I was in my 20s was mostly of Italian heritage and would travel back and forth between our country and yours.

I was quite masculine in my gender expression back then.

And SHE pursued ME.

Everything she talked about... From her Indigenous American heritage to her Italian heritage was nothing like what you have been saying about people.

If anything, she mentioned often how colorful, loud, and obnoxious Italians are who love deeply and loyally and passionately. Which was why she felt at home in NYC.

But women needing to be feminine all the time? For men? Or be socially ostracized?

LOLOLOL

I'll take her word over yours any day of the week. Her description of what Italian women want and how they are seen by society is much more believable.

 

[lewisnotmiller]

of course I am. I can't see any difference

One is using her panties in a public place to tie her hair back, and the other is having an interview and acting in a fairly 'normal' way. Given the limited amount of evidence as to what these women are like, I'd suggest that their behaviour in the vids is in no way remotely similar.

 

[savagewind]

And then

One is using her panties in a public place to tie her hair back, and the other is having an interview and acting in a fairly 'normal' way. Given the limited amount of evidence as to what these women are like, I'd suggest that their behaviour in the vids is in no way remotely similar.

And then she turns around, bends over in her short dress and we can't see but he tries to. Not only is she inviting him for some unmarried sex, but she is showing BOTH OF THEM her willingness to to do it the other way.

 

[savagewind]

O know Italians know about body language. I think he is pretending he is Italian.

 

[Father Heathen]

Stereotypes are everywhere.
I really wanted to spare you this, but...do you really want to know what Italian women think of American women?
They think that most American women are either ugly butches or overweight "females"- and they laugh about them all the time.

I remember that my friend Monica recorded a video, when she went to Rhode Island. She and her friends laughed about all the fat girls of the video for weeks.
so....you see? Italian women are a bit wicked, but that's just because they think that woman's femininity is sacred.

If you are not feminine, you are socially banned

Unless we're talking pasta, how is italy or its women relevant to those outside its ignorant and regressive culture?

 

[Draka]

Okay, I finally did it, much to my chagrin, I watched the video in the OP. That's not "feminine", not "sweet and kind",...that's a little ho-ho.

 

[Estro Felino]

One is using her panties in a public place to tie her hair back, and the other is having an interview and acting in a fairly 'normal' way. Given the limited amount of evidence as to what these women are like, I'd suggest that their behaviour in the vids is in no way remotely similar.

as I said to savagewind, it's you who perceive her behavior as something dirty.
well...I just think that she needed a lace for her hair and the first thing that popped in her mind was her panties.

It's you guys who perceive dirtiness in a woman without underpants, not me.

It's like I accused a gorgeous mason who works shirtless in a dockyard of being sexually provoking.
I couldn't. and yet he turns me on. but at least, I can control myself and I don't blame the mason for my drives.

 

[savagewind]

Okay, I finally did it, much to my chagrin, I watched the video in the OP. That's not "feminine", not "sweet and kind",...that's a little ho-ho.

Honest to goodness there are some woman who can turn me on to sexual fantasy even though I am pretty sure I am not gay but the woman in the video seemed manly aggressive to me. In all my wildest fantasies I would not fantasize that.

Disclaimer: please do not take out the not. OK?

 

[Draka]

I'm sorry,...no. Look, I have always had nice big boobies. Honestly I could put that woman to shame. And while I'm not in the shape now as I was several years ago, I still have a decent body and caused some stares and comments at my last high school reunion. I could dress like that, act like that, have my boobs looking like they're going to pop out in your face whenever I take a deep breath or bend over...sure. but if I did even I would consider myself a frickin tramp. That's NOT "sweet and kind", that's a dick-tease.

 

[savagewind]

as I said to savagewind, it's you who perceive her behavior as something dirty.
well...I just think that she needed a lace for her hair and the first thing that popped in her mind was her panties.

It's you guys who perceive dirtiness in a woman without underpants, not me.

It's like I accused a gorgeous mason who works shirtless in a dockyard of being sexually provoking.
I couldn't. and yet he turns me on. but at least, I can control myself and I don't blame the mason for my drives.

Dirty? Who ARE you?

 

[Estro Felino]

Unless we're talking pasta, how is italy or its women relevant to those outside its ignorant and regressive culture?

I think that beauty standards are not a consequence of ignorance. They are a consequence of cultural peculiarities of a nation.
For example, in Italy all women are supposed to have a tiny waist, whereas men are supposed to be hairy and belly.
or for example, it is inconceivable, in the eyes of an Italian person, to see that a handsome man is married to a fat woman.
It is a bit laughable, in our eyes.

 

[Estro Felino]

IThat's NOT "sweet and kind", that's a dick-tease.

that's because Americans are phallocentric.

In Italy people praise and admire the sexy provoking women, and call the ugly ones names. Sexy women are called fairies.
Ugly women are called loos.

 

[Terrywoodenpic]

Women come in all shapes and sizes. Italian women are no exception.
when young and fashionable many are as slim and beautiful as any I have ever known.
However they also fill the top spot for the larger jolly women I have known.
Like men, women live their own lives and share them with people of like mind.

very few cater, long term, to the fantasies or the excess homones of men