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I finally killed something.

Penumbra

Veteran Member
Premium Member
It was sad!!!!!!!:cover: :(

Today, I found a Black Widow nest (2 alive, 1 dead, 3 eggs) inside a cement mixing plastic container I had left outside a few months ago after I had finished building my deck. I was forced to kill them because it was my little brother's birthday and we were having a party. I don't think I would be able to live with myself if one of them bit one of the kids. So it had to be done.The only real other time I killed something was when my little brother found a snake in our backyard last year and I killed it with a shovel for fear of it biting him.

Was I justified? (This question if more directed to the people who dearly value life such as I do, if you don't care for life, of course you would say yes.)
I think it's justified.

I feel sad when I kill bugs too, and try to do it as little as possible. I avoid killing more complex animals, because they can suffer, and for other reasons. I don't mind killing plants, because I see no evidence that they have any ability to suffer, seeing as how they have no central nervous system or complex nerves.

With bugs, I'm kind of in the middle. On one hand, science I've looked into has said that their nervous system is very different and far less developed than ours, so while they can surely sense things, calling it "pain" or "suffering" might not be appropriate. But on the other hand, the case doesn't seem completely settled, and I'm not 100% sure they can't suffer.

So, I try to be careful. I used to kill bugs more often, since I'm afraid of them :)facepalm:), but nowadays I try to move them whenever possible. So if spiders or crickets or things like that get in my apartment, I trap them and put them outside. But if spiders have a web and I can't comfortably trap them, or if it's a stream of ants, or there are flies, I have to kill them since I cannot trap them, but I try to do so as quickly as possible.
 

Valjean

Veteran Member
Premium Member
It was sad!!!!!!!:cover: :(

Today, I found a Black Widow nest (2 alive, 1 dead, 3 eggs) inside a cement mixing plastic container I had left outside a few months ago after I had finished building my deck. I was forced to kill them because it was my little brother's birthday and we were having a party. I don't think I would be able to live with myself if one of them bit one of the kids. So it had to be done.The only real other time I killed something was when my little brother found a snake in our backyard last year and I killed it with a shovel for fear of it biting him.

Was I justified? (This question if more directed to the people who dearly value life such as I do, if you don't care for life, of course you would say yes.)
Black widows aren't hunting spiders. They just hang out in their nests. They're usually not much of a hazard unless you disturb their nests.
I'd have just moved the container somewhere else, perhaps remove/relocate the spider with a stick.
I'm confused about this "nest" thing. Black widows are solitary. They don't hang out together, at least without one of them getting eaten. As for eggs, like most spiders they lay hundreds of them inside little silk egg cases, which hang in the nests. You don't see the eggs. You see the egg case.

Now, the snake: Why didn't you just pick it up and put it somewhere else? And why would it bite your brother -- unless your brother's small enough for a snake to swallow?


They had eggs in the grass around it. Wasn't sure if I would have been able to find them all.
Huh? You mean the spider? They don't lay eggs in grass. They don't usually even leave their webs. They have one or a few egg cases in their webs, with minute little eggs inside.

It's okay. I'm still working on converting you guys. ;)
How do you propose to do that? I don't think you have either a moral or ecological leg to stand on.
 

Reverend Rick

Frubal Whore
Premium Member
I think the bigger issue is people who take pleasure when killing something.

Maintaining a balance of when killing is appropriate and when it is not is the key.

There should be no absolutes.
 

Vendetta

"Oscar the grouch"
It was sad!!!!!!!:cover: :(

Today, I found a Black Widow nest (2 alive, 1 dead, 3 eggs) inside a cement mixing plastic container I had left outside a few months ago after I had finished building my deck. I was forced to kill them because it was my little brother's birthday and we were having a party. I don't think I would be able to live with myself if one of them bit one of the kids. So it had to be done.The only real other time I killed something was when my little brother found a snake in our backyard last year and I killed it with a shovel for fear of it biting him.

Was I justified? (This question if more directed to the people who dearly value life such as I do, if you don't care for life, of course you would say yes.)

I don't see why this is such a big deal humans are Apex predators and all though you feel bad you made a choice to eliminate potential problems. I too, typically will occasionally see a spider in my house to I tend to capture it and put it back in the wild. However I will not do the same for a poisonous creature because if I mishandle it I may get bitten. Besides, think of it this way, if you were a tiny creature would a black widow show you the same mercy?
 

Where Is God

Creator
I don't see why this is such a big deal humans are Apex predators and all though you feel bad you made a choice to eliminate potential problems. I too, typically will occasionally see a spider in my house to I tend to capture it and put it back in the wild. However I will not do the same for a poisonous creature because if I mishandle it I may get bitten. Besides, think of it this way, if you were a tiny creature would a black widow show you the same mercy?

No, but it should. That's how it eats and that is the only way it knows how to eat. It can't help that.
 

Valjean

Veteran Member
Premium Member
No, but it should. That's how it eats and that is the only way it knows how to eat. It can't help that.
But spiders are not moral agents. Right and wrong don't really apply to them.

Only humans have dietary options or a choice of lifestyles and actions. Only humans can appreciate the impact of their actions on others.
 

Where Is God

Creator
You're making black and white statements and assigning your own moral code on a creature that is more than likely not even self aware and is most definitely behaving in an instinctual manner. It's not raping or torturing or doing anything that is unquestionably morally abhorrent. It is doing what it has been biologically programmed to survive and more than likely it's behavior is helping to keep other organisms in check.

Do you think that viruses and bacteria are morally reprehensible because some of them are known to infect larger organisms causing them to become ill? It is harder to find an example of a more simple creature that cannot control how it behaves. It is simply acting and reacting to its environment in the most basic way in an attempt fulfill its biological imperative. Here's the kicker. Their seemingly unpleasant behavior? It helps population control as well as the advancement of other species by culling the weak. In the large scheme of things, how is this a net negative?

You are arguing with something I just agreed to. I am aware that it is doing what it needs to do in order to survive and in the long run, it is maybe helping others too.


My point was and always will be, humans can be vegetarians. I don't see why WE don't pay much respect to the lives of the animals we take. We over-hunt and over-fish all the time and it effects nature in negative ways. Sometimes we affect it in good ways. It all depends.
 

Songbird

She rules her life like a bird in flight
Let us hope that when the aliens arrive they do not feel thus about humans.

I hope they crush us.

Seriously, what I mean is there are so many things in life to validly be concerned about. Hoping aliens treat us well isn't really one of them, neither is being torn up about killing deadly spiders that could have killed a child.

You guys are young and sweet, and I think in a few years you'll understand that you can both immensely value life and realize it's pointless to philosophize much about this.
 

Where Is God

Creator
I hope they crush us.

Seriously, what I mean is there are so many things in life to validly be concerned about. Hoping aliens treat us well isn't really one of them, neither is being torn up about killing deadly spiders that could have killed a child.

You guys are young and sweet, and I think in a few years you'll understand that you can both immensely value life and realize it's pointless to philosophize much about this.

I could have moved the two parents. But I didn't, I burned them.
 

Koldo

Outstanding Member
My point was and always will be, humans can be vegetarians. I don't see why WE don't pay much respect to the lives of the animals we take. We over-hunt and over-fish all the time and it effects nature in negative ways. Sometimes we affect it in good ways. It all depends.

Why? Because many people do not care.
It is simple as that.
 
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