I just want a normal boyfriend

[Trailblazer]

I don't know. Being in the present has it's limitations. When you don't forsee possibilities, you can get in trouble.

That's very true, it leads to hopelessness.

 

[Truthseeker]

I am not going to 'see' any local Baha'is in person, only on Zoom, since they don't meet in person anymore.
I do not want to see a whole bunch of people on Zoom all at the same time, that won't help me or them.

Yes, it's true no doubt that Feasts are at least partially on Zoom, and other Baha'i activities are on Zoom like here, but you can meet people individually in person if you want. You already have a little. Of course they would have to agree to do something with you. You could have individual Zoom meetings like you do with me.

I don't know either why you can't see them in a multiple Zoom meetings and find you like some individuals, and you don't like others, and pick and choose that way someone to be friends with on an individual basis. Make sense or not?

I hope I'm making some sense that is helpful to you.

 

[Trailblazer]

Yes, it's true no doubt that Feasts are at least partially on Zoom, and other Baha'i activities are on Zoom like here, but you can meet people individually in person if you want. You already have a little. Of course they would have to agree to do something with you. You could have individual Zoom meetings like you do with me.

I don't know either why you can't see them in a multiple Zoom meetings and find you like some individuals, and you don't like others, and pick and choose that way someone to be friends with on an individual basis. Make sense or not?

I hope I'm making some sense that is helpful to you.

Yes, I could probably try that if I was up to it. I will know if and when I am.