Which brings me back to the rapist logic. You question a no, you say "but this and but that," you keep insisting, you keep refusing to listen to and consider the objections, and the lack of verbalized consent does not phase or bother you. Just like a rapist who says "well, she didn't say no." She didn't say yes either, which makes it wrong.
If someone does not give you verbal consent to do something to them then it is wrong to do it. Not understanding this is how your Church got sued over this practice.